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Ok im 14/m and im in grade 9. Theres a girl I like whos in my class i dont know if she likes me or not. She always walks over to me and starts a conversation with me and other people say that shes all over me. I dont think she likes me because she always changes the subject when I ask for her msn or number. If she liked me wouldnt she have given me it? Do you think she likes me? (link)
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I think you should just take the risk of asking her out. I think she's probably just trying to see how much you like her when you're asking her for her #.
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i need help.
badly.
i was a new student this year, i came from a coed school and i transfered to an exclusive school. i'm 14 but i'm in the 10th grade. we've started out third semester.
today, me and three other classmates were playing truth or dare and it pointed to one of my close friends. she insisted on truth and told us that she would tell us who her crush was...
except me.
i didnt know why but she wouldve told me because she knows i'm trustworthy. she even told a girl whom she wasnt close with!
after she told her, the girl said "Ashley! Its you!" I wasnt sure whether to believe her or not because she wasnt a close friend of mine.and i couldnt really tell.
but then...why didnt she tell me who it was? unless she WAS referring to ME...
i tried to ask my other classmates who her crush was to know the truth. but they just said "Its a secret...I dont want to tell you."
But i'm a bit scared. what if it was true? the whole day, i felt awkward around her. but if it wasnt true, whats to be awkward about?
i dont wanna affect our friendship but if it was true, i'd wanna avoid her. but then she'd probably think that someone told me or something.
what should i do? i dont feel the same for her anyway. i dont support girl pairing at all.
please help.
sincerely,
aSHLey
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wow... its DEFINITELY sounds like she likes you. That's freaky. I dont support girl pairing at all either. i suggest you stay away from her, and if she thinks someone told you then that means it is you. And then you tell her that you're not interested and you only found out becuase it was really obvious during truth or dare.
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I am 21 and a bit of a "nerd." I love to be around girls, but I have always been shy, and I have not had many dates. The dates I've had were just dinner and a movie and then take the girl back to her home, and I'd go back to mine, and maybe we'd talk by phone later, and go out again sometime, but nothing more. All pretty innocent stuff; rarely even a kiss.
But recently I met an attractive girl in one of my glasses and things are different this time. She was hard not to notice because she often wears short skirts or shorts (when the weather permits), and she has really nice long legs and a great body to match. We have gone out several times. After the first three dates where we did nothing but kiss, we began getting a little more intimate. Since our fifth date, she has given me a handjob on every date. Of course I enjoy it and would do practically anything to have her do it to me. But here is my concern: She seems like a nice person, and even has certain Christian values, goes to church regularly, and other stuff. Yet, she tells me that she has given most of her other guy friends handjobs. When she told me that, I felt a whole lot less special, and so I asked her why she did it. She told me simply that she thought "guys like it", and she saw nothing wrong with doing for them what they do for themselves all of the time. She says she's a virgin and will not have intercourse until marriage. Now, everything else about the relationship seems to be going well except for my knowing that she gives guys what they want (within limits). I am not very experienced with dating and with girls. Is this normal behavior in dating? Did I grow up in such a conservative environment that I never learned about these things? Or, is she not the "nice" girl that I thought she is? If this is the case, I want to get out of this relationship as soon as I can find the courage. I just don't know what is "normal" dating behavior, and what to expect. Is this what people do on dates? Do girls and guys our age (were both 21 now, and we were 20 when we met) do these things (i.e., have manual sex) fairly casually? Or, is my "nice" girlfriend really promiscuous?" (link)
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Okay. First of all... SHE BETTER NOT BE GIVING THOSE OTHER GUYS HAND JOBS WHEN YOU TWO ARE GOING OUT. NEVER NEVER NEVER. Honestly I think you have a bad relationship with her. It seems like she's just using you if all you did on the first few dates was kiss and now all she does is give you hand jobs. Of course guys like it you idiot. That's not an excuse. Seriously dude. Sometimes it depends whether or not you're doing this stuff already with her when you've been on like 5 dates. To some people its alot and to some its a little. I mean, some people do it on the first date. She told you she wants to get married, so thats good if you're looking for that. You guys need to stop fooling around so much, becuase if you wnt a long term good realationship with this girl.... then you need to start getting to know each other. Don't just keep her becuase she's good looking and your a nerd and you wnat to show her off. thats STUPIDDDD. Just do what you think is right.
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I sit next to two really annoying kids, what should I do?
I hate them, but I don't want confrontation. (link)
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okay, the only way to mske them stop is to confront them. hate to say it but the next time they do something annoying just tell them to stop. I mean...it's not like you like them or anything.. do you?
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