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Age is just a Number
14/f
I've fallen for this boy but hes in 7th *im in 8th* and i know age is just a number but since hes younger than me and i never really talk to him except for in two classes, i dont really know about him like if he has a girlfriend or if he would ever go out with me. i dont rly have any friends in that grade that would know except for one. i could ask her but she would make a big deal about it. any advice?
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first of all i want to tell you something
i dated an eghth grader when i was in sixth grade so i dont see any thing wrong with this problem
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girl thats nothing im in 8th grade and going out with a 6 grader and our relasionship could not be better go with your instinks if you like him go for it younger guys r better in my op.
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Age isnt just a number. For example, at 16 it is legal to have sex because at a younger age you are not only underdeveloped but you are not able to deal emotionally with the results of having sex.
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Well maybe you should talk to him. I mean more and about different stuff than normal. Make something up like "One of my friends told me you had a crush on me. Is it true?" Something like that could work for you to see if he likes you. To find out if he has a girlfriend, your best bet would probably be to ask him or one of his friends. Those people would know. Good Luck Luv,
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You should never really care about what people may think. If you think your friend would make a big deal about it then just let her. Don't think much of it. You can't help who you like. If you like him and want to go out with him, get to know him better. Don't let the grade difference get in the way. It's not a big deal at all. Or what you can do is just find out everything on your own instead of bringing your friend into this situation. That way you have more things to talk about with him.
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I dont think asking that girl is a good idea... just like you said, she could make a big deal about it. First off, talk to him as a friend. In those 2 classes, talk to him as a friend. DONT flirt with him or anything, because you still dont know if he has a girlfriend and he could get upset. So talk to him as a friend, become best friends with him. Then casually drop the question if he has a girlfriend. If not just be like "oh, ok" he'll get the picture that you like him. On the other hand, if he says yes he has a girlfriend be like "cool, what's her name?" and just ask questions about her. Because if you say "oh..." and act all sad, he'll know that you like him and he'll have to keep that as a secret so his girlfriend wont find out, then if she finds out there will be a huge cat fight... which I dont think you want.
I hope I helped!!!
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Here's the deal, I'm 15, in the 10th grade, and my boyfriend is 14, in the 9th grade. We're definitely meant for each other so your exactly right, age is just a number. I would advise you to maybe ask him to hang out sometime, sure girls don't do that often, but it's worth it if you really like him. Being shy is pointless if that is your reason. If you don't really want to do that than you should try talking to him more. I would love to hear any updates on what happens so just contact me in some way. Good luck. :)
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