14/f. really complicated Q.
This guy who I've known for three years likes me as more than a friend. One year, I suspected he liked me (and I had an almost-reliable source tell me so) and I liked him. The next year, I completely did not like him. (I've never told him how I felt about him one way or another) and now we finalyl got to talking again and his best friend (who might be right or might be trying to start trouble) said that this guy like, loves me and is a great guy says I should give him a chance and kiss him.
Well I said that I'm not allowed to date and therefore nto allowed to kiss. (since it's true) and he was just like oh well.
Honestly, I don't think he's a great guy. I mean he's not like bad, but he is a couple of mont younger than me, I don't really think he's cute, he's interested in weird things I'm not interested in, and... I don't know.
I mean, I'm not gonna date him but can we still be friends even though he likes me?
He's told me a couple of times that he likes me but then he always tries to take it back and then says he actually does but blah blah blah blah.......
What to do?
And that's good you let him know you can't date him or anything. Sometimes girls just figure not to say anything, and the situation'll go away, but that sometimes gives the guy more and more false hope that she might someday become interested and he'll keep persisting it.
advicelady232 answered Saturday November 4 2006, 6:17 am: Well if your not allowed to date then just stay friends with the guy you have been friends with and then when you are allowed to date if ur friend still likes you go out with him i mean it cant hurt ur friendship it might make it alot better<33
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