Well i am 17 and i like this boy chris as well who is seventeen. we are both juniors at the same school and were introduced this summer. my cousin who is 19, hangs out with his brother and i am usually with them weekends or close to every two weekends. so i know his brother very good. his brother matthew is really nice/goodlooking and always hits on me but chris is not very goodlooking or " cool" which i do not care about but i think he is very shy around me and i honestly do not know whether he likes me or not. one day i was waiting out side of school and he asked me if i needed a ride home, and i didnt. one day i called my friend brendon to see where the party was and he said he couldnt get me, so i called chris and he came right over to get me supirsingly. he never IMs me online, i always IM him and i dont know if i should because what if he doesnt want to talk to me? i always ask why we dont hangout and he just says lol or "i love you laurrryn" what can i do because maybe he just doesnt know if im serious or just playing around. what can i say thats not telling him i like him? thanksss
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MummuM answered Thursday November 2 2006, 10:26 pm: I think you should just tell him that you're crushing on him. It seems like you really like this guy, or you wouldn't be asking me this question. Just spill it and tell him you have feelings for him. You'll never know how he feels about you unless you ask him or tell him. You and him might be perfect together, but you may be throwing that all away because you're too scared to tell him. He might like you, but he may be too scared or shy to explain his feelings towards you, too. Some guys are shy when it comes to expressing their feelings towards someone they're crushing on. I think you need to take control and tell him how you feel about him, than take it from there and see where it goes. [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
advicelady232 answered Thursday November 2 2006, 7:03 pm: First find out if he really does like you because if you show him signs you like him and he doesnt like you then your heart will be broken. and then when you do find out just say to him i really want to hang out with you im serious! And really show him you are serious!!! Any more questions just ask
LM answered Thursday November 2 2006, 5:46 pm: Well first off, guys are really stupid when it comes to stuff like this. It's not helping any that he's really shy, either.
You're probably going to have to come right out and say that you like him. Or, you could continue to drop hints, and try to do things together (movies, hanging out after school, etc). But its' going to take him a long time to figure it out.
Or you could ask your cousin to find out who he likes & see if he likes you.
This is starting to sound like elementary school. But it could work, I guess.
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