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dork
ok last year i was a complete dork. i mean it. i did the stupedist things and was a complete nerd. i embarrassed myself when i didnt even know it. this year, i am totally different and im not like that anymore. i dont want people to see me as that way anymore. how can i change peoples opinion of me?
and dont tell me i should be happy with who i am because that wont help me at all.
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I wouldnt tell you to be happy with yourself, because yourself wants to change and its fine to change sometimes. You can try being nice to people, and if you tihnk dressing different will get people to stop thiking of you as nerdy then go ahead. Maybe get a cute hair cut, or something to change your apperiacne to get people to see you differently as someone new. But I will tell you, to just be true to yourself. If you want to change, do it for yourself and not cause people around you. Hope this helped =)
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LOL ur exactly the same as me. Last year everyone hated me, I was a total looser, dork all that but I changed it around and am ultra popular.
If you want people to see youve changed then just change. Do what you didnt do last year, hang at parties and slowly become friends with people that you want to know uve changed. People will ALWAYS remember how you were before thats just how it is. You cant erase a whole year from peoples mind. Joke around about it like go "Remeber when I did this! How could I have been so blind lol?"
Like on my first day of school last year I wore a pokemon shirt lmao. Total social suicide. I still get bugged about it but now its just friendly. Get people to know this you and the old you will be just a funny thing to relate to.
Hope I helped without sounding heartless..
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You will alwyas look back on yourself and be suprised that you were ever so dorky. Next year you will look back on yourself now and be horrified at your behavior. Just get used to it.
Love from,
The Amazing Granddma Betty Louis xox
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dont worry i am not going to tell you to be happy with who you are and dont change for other people but i will tell you that you need to more energetic and not so dorky wear different clothes wear makeup and show people ur not afraid k?
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the same thing happened to me. first of all, spread your range of friends. experiment. sit at different lunch tables. there was one girl i didnt like, and now im her friend. dont be too annoying or talkitive . next, try changing your style a little during school by wearing something you would never wear, for example, a skirt. if you never wore a skirt, try it. whats the worst that can happen? lastly, be confident. people notice that in other people. in a conversation, try not to studder. it will get easier over time. i hope this helps!
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