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I need advise
i'm going to italy to visit a guy that i really like, he told me not to fall in love with him, but at the same time he is taking me to venice for 3 days, how can i not fall in love with all the romance he is going to give me, we already had sex. what does this mean? can he be confused or am i? he acts like he really likes me.
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I don't know about him, but you are certainly confuzzled aint you?
Before you leave, you MUST figure out the answer to this question: What do you want?
If you want a relationship. Fine. Act accordingly.
If you want to have some casual fun with him. Fine. Act accordingly.
If you don't want to develop feelings or sleep with him. Fine. Act accordingly.
Oh yeah, and tell him what you want.
And ask him what he wants.
No one is a mind reader. You want to know what on earth he is thinking, you better be willing to ask.
BUT If you don't want to fall in love with him, maybe avoiding quite candlelit dinners wouldn't be a bad idea? Maybe not going through the motions of long conversations and cuddling would be wise? Avoiding situations that lead to what you do NOT want would certainly be a good idea.
So take some control of your situation dear. Talk to the boy about what it is you would like to do while visiting him. You'll feel better if it's made clear and you will feel more in control. You don't have to let things just happen to you. You can define the situation the way you want it.
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I think he likes you, but maybe he still gets something on the side not resolved? So, he told you "not to fall in love with him" to avoid you to get in too deep and get hurt.
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call me old- fashioned or watever, but if you have sex with a guy , shouldnt it be because you think you love, him? I mean who says dont fall in love with me, no offense, but i think he is in denile or something. I realy hope it works out!
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