Q: is it wrong for a 15 year old and 18 year old to be together? he's still in school yet and he just turned 18 in august? is that still bad?

Q: Well My problems in my name. The situation is complicated but basically im in a long distant relationship, and i keep cheating on him. I love him so much AND NO ONE SAY I DONT BECAUSE I DO. i dont know what to do about it cos i love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him but i keep cheating and its hurting him and me. What do i do

Q: OK my teacher is holding tryouts for a solo to a good song on Wednesday. I know the solo really well and I've been practicing all week. I want to do it but i'm afraid if i get up there, I'll choke or something. I can't even sing in front of my mom! How can i overcome this by Wednesday?

Q: my hair is completely insane. ok mayb not that bad but it's really curly and it takes too long to straighten and it's kinda thick well i just have a lot of hair does anyone kno of any good hairstyles or something that uses curly hair. [i have bangs that i usually striaghten] i can straighten my hair it just takes too long. picture day is coming soon i'm wearing a blue hollister shirt if that helps. hope you can help...

thanx;

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Q: Hey. ^.^ I'm a f/15 and I have a boyfriend. My mom caught me and him getting really close, and now i'm not allowed to see him. I was fine with that, because I planned to move out whenever I get a decent job, and some money (and of course come of age), but my mom continues to tell me that i'm not leaving the house until I finish college. (Which means I won't leave the house until i'm 24 or older...)And anytime I happen to tell her i'm moving out until I am legaly an adult she screams at me, and cries to my dad insisting that I hate her and want her dead. Which gets me on my dads bad side. But, she think she has cancer so i've tried to forgive her, but i've just found out that she went to the doctor, but didn't get a biopsy to prove she does. So she "feels" like she has cancer, when really I just think it's menopause. It's really quite horrible and because of her mood swings i'm starting to become an angry person. And lately she's been pushing another guy onto me in hopes that me and my boyfriend will break up, and sadly, I think it's working. The guy she's been pushing off onto me has gone off to the marines, and anytime I tell him I just want to be friends, she yells at me more and tells me i'm ungrateful, disrespectful, arrogant, and irresponsible. I've tried my best for 15 years to keep her happy. I've never done drugs, never had sex, I NEVER cuss, and i've never drank. But she continues to tell me i'm a bad child. But, we're also in the middle of a move so I figure somewhere between moving, her "cancer" and menopause, she's just having a bad decade. But, it's gotten to the point to where she started crying because I asked her for my own bed! I have a twin sister who i've been sharing my LIFE with for 15 years, and she flips because I want my own bed. And after the incident where she thought I got too close to my BF, she has threatened to hit me, called me a whore, and she cusses out my existence all the time. She gives me dirty looks whenever I walk into the same room as her, but again thinks I want her dead because I don't want to be in the same room as her. And, again, all of this wouldn't be so much of a problem but just a few hours ago I was writing in my diary about how much I really don't think she has cancer, and how I really think it's just her way of having a pitty party, and I left it on the ground. Now, she is constantly listening in on my phone calls, which I have nothing to really hide so it's just a stupid invasion of privacy I think, but she read my diary. It was locked, and under books in the bathroom, and she pryed it open, and started crying to my dad saying I left it open for her to read intentionaly so that I could let her know just how much I hate her. But, fighting won't get me anywhere, i'm too young to go anywhere, and crying certainly doesn't help, so I have no where to turn! We've been to family counceling and she makes it a point to make sure I don't say anything. The minute I open my mouth to tell the councelor about her threatening me, she immediately interupts and tells the coucnelor that I have a horrible lying problem. I need someone for some advice please make it quick! I don't know what to do, because i'm starting to think that I really do deserve what she's doing...Am I really a bad kid? ...Should I hate her? What can I do to make things better? I've already tried talking to her, but she starts crying and continues to insist that I want her dead, and that I hate her because I don't feel bad that she has cancer...But no one knows if she does! She keeps saying she's going to die soon, but she refuses to get a biopsy because she's afraid she won't have cancer and she'll be missing half of her breast for no reason....


I guess my biggest problem is low self esteem right now. Or maybe not...I don't know!! Please tell me what I can do, because she's starting to drag me down into depression, but I don't want CPS to take her away!!

Q: I had asked a question about having a toothache.
Im going to a dentist next tuesday or wednesday because my dad has to find on since we havent found one since we moved up here not long ago.

But im not sure if i can wait till next week its killing me. Its throbbing and its killing me. Would they do anything if i went to the hospital? My dad said they would pull it but im not sure.

please help im begging you guys.

Q: I'm going to a wedding tomorrow and I don't know how I should do my hair. It is a couple inches part my shoulders in layers. I wear it straight every day, so what kind of style should I wear to the wedding?

Q: I am a 21 woman (living at college) and my neighbor at home is a 15 yr old boy and he got to talking to me about stuff, he calls quite a bit and that's fine, he doesn't really have people to talk to a lot because he's very popular in the high school so he has to maintain an image or whatever, you know how high school is, so he can't really open up to anybody. Anyway he calls me about stuff and I give advice whatever, he treats me like I'm his mom or something (his own mom was never in the picture really) so anyway his dad got re-married last spring and he was fine with the stepmom at first but after a while he started changing and he was calling late at night really upset. Finally he told me why, he said his stepmom's been coming in his room at night and doing stuff with him, I won't be graphic but you can probably figure it out. So I called CPS and they ended up dropping the case, and his dad thinks he was lying, but I know he's not. He's been able to keep his stepmom out of his room and is staying weekends with his aunt and uncle, but it just sucks that he has to go thru this and he's got a lot of trust issues now. Sorry to be so long but you kinda had to know the backstory in order to answer my question, which is how can I help him thru this, what do I say to him? All I've told him so far is that I believe him and I don't think it was his fault.

Q: What is up with these 13 yr olds and getting pregnant/asking for advice about fingering and sexual things like that. wtf is our world coming too.When I was 13 I was still playing coodies with the guys next door or riding my bike around the neighborhood. Gahsh by the time I turn 30, 5 yr olds will be worried about sex. WTH

Q: heeeyy well yeah my hair isn't exactly really wavy, but it has kinks and it's kinda puffy, you know? so anyway, i take showers at night, and once it air dries i straighten it so it won't be as bad the next morning and it looks fine, but then once i wake up it's all wavy again and i have to straighten it and it takes a while and it still doesnt even really get that straight. so i was wondering, if i put my hair into a low ponytail before i go to bed, would it be not as wavy when i wake up? i know there will be a ponytail bump, but that's deff easier to straighten than a bunch of waves. soo will it work?
thanks

Q: okay me and my almost boyfriend have been talking either on the phone or through aim for atleast 2 hours a day! we talk about EVERYTHING. its weird how open we can be to eachother.. well anyhoo we have talked and talked and talked until theres nothing to talk about anymore!! for the past couple of days we've just said "so what do you wanna talk about?" and "i dont know what do you wanna talk about?" we have nothing to talk about we have past relationships music sex movies.. we've talked about everything.. i need some interesting topics that arent so ordinary because i dont know what to talk about with him anymore!! and i dont want him to lose interest. help?

Q: Me and my best guy friend talk all the time on AIM. Mainly every night before school. But I have 2 classes with him, and he RARELY talks to me in class. Is there a reason for this? It kind of makes me upset.

Q: i skipped once now i can't stop! its an evil circle! and now i can't get a way!

i skipped school because i had a test i hadn't studied for that day, and then it kept going from there, i skip whenever there's a test, which means i miss what they teach us in school, which makes me skip the next test because i dont have enough info to make it, and now im stuck in this circle! i cant go back,cause theres too many hw's i havn't done, but the more i skip, the more i miss, and the more homework i have to do, and my grades! goshh im too afriad to think about because ill start crying, and nother thing! = where i live.. the system is... the more absence you have, the less they pay your parents - they are gonna kill me when they get they paychecks! i know my grades are falling apart, and im messing up stuff for my parents are for my family.. BUT I DONT KNOW WHERE TO START!? what homework to do? how to do it when i cant get any help from anyone since i cant go to class to ask for help withh the next hw cause i havnt given in the last one.. am i making any sense??? I NEED HELP - DESPREATLELY- PLEAASSE!

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