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i know he's shit but i still love that dude :(
15/f ok so i really like this guy and i think he likes me back but he's just too complicated for me. we've never really talked before but just eyecontact and my friends tell me he always looks at me etc. and i used to date his best friend so i know him just a little bit but only talked once or twice. anyway im pretty sure he started liking me and i like him back. this is going on for over a year now. he's never had a gf and ive never had a bf. but he always makes me sad by his behaviour. i mean sometimes he notices me but then he just ignores me and makes me feel like shit. and i know hes doing it cos he wants to be cool but still. and basicly i know he's not that great and deffinetly not the best guy for me but i cant help liking him. im trying to get over him but i always think: what if it could be something AFTER ALL and im throwing it all away. you know what i mean? and i have my eyes on a nother guy who actually makes me smile a lot but i just dont seem to like him in that way. i dont get it, because i KNOW that if i like the other guy i'd be happy but i cant help liking HIM. i always seem to choose the guys who make me feel bad about myself and who are hard to get, and never like the sweet and kind ones :/
heeeelp
and please dont say that i dont really know him cos we've never talked. trust me we DO no eachother but i dont wanna spell it all out cos it'd be long. just trust me on this :)
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You said you never really had a bf so i dont think this is a case about running to people bc you have low self esteem.. you just seem to go for the bad guys... which isnt ALWAYS a bad thing because they may portray that bad guy role to everyone else.. but to the people that take the time to dig a little further, they turn out to be the sweet and kind ones! i know.. but its crazy. SO I just say talk to him, i mean, you said you really havent and you never know what can happen from a simple talk! Just try it.. and if he still seems like a dorkwad.. then you'll know!
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Right. Going back to the guys that always hurt you, that's called low self esteem. You don't need to take that. Spend more time with the guy whose nice to you. In time, he'll grow on you, and you'll forget about the mean one as the nice one makes you feel better about yourself. Seriously.
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