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MUSIC = DRAMA???


Question Posted Tuesday May 6 2008, 6:35 pm

13/f

my best friends boyfriend likes me A LOT.
a couple days ago we were watching softball ***school thing*** and he played me a song. He said "listen to it". It was Far Away by Nickleback. I love that song. I didn't think anything by it. But today at lunch if he really felt that way and he said yes. So the song was in my head and i was listening to it on my ipod. "I dont like him i just really love the song." and my best friend got mad at me because i was listening to the song that explained his feelings. Please help me


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anniemaylane answered Thursday May 8 2008, 5:57 pm:
Okay first of all remember the saying Friends are forever boyfriends are whatever, it goes somethin like that. BUT anyways: You should be forward with this guy tell him to back off that he's dating my bff and it's not right to flirt with you. But make sure he likes you first. Then tell your friend everything your feelings, and if she's your TRUE friend she'll understand.
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MCalways answered Thursday May 8 2008, 4:48 pm:
My advice would be... to pull HER boyfriend over and tell him.. he is her boyfriend, and he isnt right for him to send you things like that. Then you need to pull her aside and let her know it was just a song (even if he has feelings.. forget them) it was just a song, and there are no mutual feelings behind them.. and assure her that it wont happen again. You dont want to mess up anything with your best friend over some guy... your 13! So try to take a little advice from someone a little older.. GUYS ARENT WORTH THE TROUBLE.. THEY COME AND GO BUT YOUR TRUE FRIENDS WILL STICK BY YOU!

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triquetra answered Thursday May 8 2008, 8:40 am:
I don't really understand your question. Inbox me and point out what the probelm is or add more deatails to your question.

THIS ISN'T MY ANSWER.

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loverocks answered Thursday May 8 2008, 6:39 am:
She might think you like him and want to steel him. Show your friend you dont and that you are a good friend by only playing the song privately.
If you have to explain to her you have no interest in him. I would suggest not asking him his feelings anymore because this might give mixed signals too.

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