It has been about three years now, and I cannot get over my ex boyfriend. I don't know what to do anymore. The last couple of weeks were perfect. I thought I finally got over him when we stopped talking for a while, but we started talking yesterday and I realized that I'm not over him. He hurt me so many times. He did really messed up things and I need to get over him. And I feel as though I'm getting there until he calls or messages me. I already locked up all of his things and through away memories. I need to get over him, what else do I do??
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MCalways answered Monday October 9 2006, 9:10 am: Hmmm sounds familiar...
The best thing that i could say right now would be to tell him not to talk to him...because obviously you need a little more time to get over him. I remember i was in this exact same positiion and my friends would do everything to keep me from answering my phone when he called. Even tho its been 3 years apart... sometimes it does seem like it takes forever to get over someone.
Give yourself some you time... not seeing him, talking to him.. it will make a world of difference! [ MCalways's advice column | Ask MCalways A Question ]
candygirlsrok answered Sunday October 8 2006, 8:15 pm: Dont keep things locked up.
It's not healthy. If you care about him that much then your not meant to break-up. why dont you talk to him? mabey get back together. But if what he did was so serrious you cant get back together then this will be a hard one. But your going to have to exept he cant be appart of your life anymore. Meet some other guys, and get your mind off him.
Just atleast tell him how you feel, and it will be out in the open you wont have to hold it in anylonger. Hope things work out 4 u!!!
.......:Lanie Day:..... [ candygirlsrok's advice column | Ask candygirlsrok A Question ]
grannysays answered Sunday October 8 2006, 5:46 pm: Hey,
I have been there...you just have learn to love him in your heart in a way that you can and know that if things are meant to be he will come back to you...you will know it...just take one day at a time and things will work out for you...there in no on and off switch for love.... [ grannysays's advice column | Ask grannysays A Question ]
Boy4gd answered Sunday October 8 2006, 4:04 pm: tell him you still hav feelings & let you 2 sort it out cos if he keeps calling u that means either he wants to be with you but thinks you dont OR that he still wants to be friends & that means you can talk to him about anything [ Boy4gd's advice column | Ask Boy4gd A Question ]
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