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what's going on with me?
16/f
ok so this has never happened to me... I'm not one to act like this AT ALL.
I have the most amazing boyfriend(17) ever. He is perfect for me in every way.
I think about him every second of the day and at night.. I stay up for 2-3 hours thinking about him. Whenever I don't see him for a few days I miss him so much I cry (sad, I know).
Sometimes he'll drive across town just to see me for 10 minutes then, 1 minute after he leaves he'll call me just to tell me he misses me.
Every time I'm with him everything seems to fit just right (like a puzzle, he says). We are so comfortable with eachother it's unreal. I feel like I've known him forever even though we've only been dating a few months.
(he told me he feels the same about me)
What's going on with me? I feel like I'm going crazy!
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your in love <3
plain and simple
head over heels
reach for the stars
jump over the moon
red sox win the world
series kinda love <3
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well im happy for you i think youv just found your first love + its going well for you dont worry just be happy + good luck x x x
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hunnyyy that's what they call LOVE =]
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this is a no brainer... I think you like your boyfriend a lot.. and in this case.. i think it would be called............
Love
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What's happening to you is what's happened to people since the dawn of time; it's called Love.
It sounds to me like you've been lucky enough to find someone you really click with, and what's more the feeling is mutual. Enjoy the rush, while it lasts.
I say "while it lasts" because even if this is true love which will follow you through the length of your days, it won't always feel this way. Think of the intense joy you're feeling right now - that's the intensity of the hurt you will inevitably feel later, eventually, when something goes wrong. I'm not saying this to frighten you or to rain on your parade - I'm saying it because you need to know it's coming in order to be able to get through it and come out the other side with your love still intact.
I'm speaking from a certain amount of experience, and hopefully I can help you avoid what happened to me. I also had a relationship, at roughly the same age, which seemed ideal and I couldn't imagine anything better. However, that was the downfall - we were both so afraid of ruining the veneer of perfection, we were afraid to talk about the little problems we had here and there - until it all blew up at once. Having dated for a year and a half, we had never had a real argument of any kind, and when it finally happened we couldn't deal with it, and it was over. The irony is that all the while we thought we were being honest with each other, when in reality we were playing parts in our own idealized relationship that couldn't possibly last.
So here's a nickel's worth of free advice: The first time you feel yourself getting upset with something he does, don't hold it in for fear of ruining everything! Talk about your problems, even the petty things, because you don't want issues and resentments building up. You might even try deliberately arguing about something totally unimportant, like a movie you just saw, just to see if you can agree to disagree. Make sure you maintain lives and support systems outside of each other, so when you do become totally pissed with each other over something, it won't feel like the end of the world.
And don't listen to anyone who says you're too young to be in love. They don't know what they're talking about.
All the best to you!
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It sounds like love! You are in the throes of being wildly and ecstatically in love with this guy. These feelings will ease off as time goes by so make the most of them. Rejoice that you can be so happy. All the very best.
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