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surrounded by couples.
15//female.
practically ALL of my friends have a boyfriend//girlfriend. and I have been single.. forever.. literally.. ive never had a boyfriend.
ims so depressing for me to always see them together and all happy.. especially when we leave school and its always like "love you, bye" and then they kiss.
i mean, its incredibly awkward, and i dont know what to do because i feel so lonely.
i dont know what its like to be happy like that and i just wish i did.
there are a few people i like but im too afraid to say anything, and only one of my friends [[who has a boyfriend]] is the only one that knows.. i just dont know what to do.
sorry this was long :x :/
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whoa you sound just like me a few months agoo.. trust me hun, i know exactly how you feel. i had never had a boyfriend and i am also 15 years old. i always felt like such a loner because I was always sngle, my whole entire life.. sometimes it was really bad .. like I thought there was sometimes wrong with me cause no one ever asked me out.. but I realized that you have to just make yourself abailable and let people KNOW when you like them. But one day, this cute boy who lived about a half hour away added me on my myspace… then we started talking on aim and he eventually got my number (this was all over like 5 months.. I knew he was real because of his sports, friends, and I could just tell.) and now, we’re goingout =) and we have been for 4 months! My first boyfriend ever, and he’s amazing. Trust me hun, you’ll find someone.. just give it time and don’t look so hard.. let love find you. I know I know you’re probably thinking “yeah whatever that’ll never happen to me” cause that’s what I thought all the time whenever people would try to cheer me upp but trust me, just be optimistic and wait.. love will ocome your way =) I promiseeeeeeeeeee.
So basically, I can relate you you.. I definitely can.. feel free to im me =) on aim ONExLOVE09
Or if you don’t have aim you can email me at saraemilyy@yahoo.com
I’ll be glad to talk to you =) when I was in your shoes I deff would have wanted someone to talk to who knows what they’re saying =)
Hopefully talk to you later hun! Byeee ♥
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it'll get better, trust ME. i know. i felt the same thing, ugh it got so annoying to hear all my friends "i LOVE him", "omg HE KISSED ME TODAY!! ahhh" you'll find someone! and if you like someone, take a chance you never know how it'll end up
hope i helped
xxx
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If you care that much, why not ask one of your friends to ask her boyfriend to ask one of his friends to hook you two up.
Did I just state the Tranisitive Property of Equality?
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oh my gosh! the exact same way with me. (only i'm 14)i know how feels.
what i have been doing is always look on the bright side of things no matter what. just be yourself and eventually someone will notice you.
and/or if you're friends with your friends' boyfriends, you could be friends with their friends and then you could just flirt around with them.
i hope you understood that, cuz that was a little confusing..
i hope i helped out. :)
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Honey, don't worry about it. You're only 15. So that leaves 3 or 4 years of high school left? Then there is college. Then LIFE. You have forever to find a boyfriend. Just because your friends have bf's doesn't mean that you're lame or something. Having a boyfriend doesn't always seem like what you expected. You don't need a guy to make you happy. You have your friends, family, and anyone else out there that supports and loves you.
How sad does this sound? "I don't have a bf. Never had. I'm depressed." I think it sounds pathetic. You my dear need to gain confidence in yourself and change your attitude towards life.
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if you keep your secrets about your crushes in, then NOTHING WILL EVER HAPPEN! you have to express youself in order to let people know how you feel cause maybe they feel the same way about you. you have to take a stand and take some risks if you don't then your life will stay lonely and boring =] so just let them know girl!
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You have time.
Fifteen is still young. People are dating younger these days than they did when I went to high school (which wasn't THAT long ago, thank you very much), but that doesn't chage the fact that you still have four years of high school, and then the rest of your life after that, to date people.
I remember that feeling you describe very well. I rushed into one thing before I was ready, and as a result I have less than happy memories about my first kiss and my first relationship. My point is, don't go get a boyfriend just for the sake of having one - it's not fair to either of you.
Just so you know, as long as you are afraid to reveal how you feel, nothing will happen. I got a girlfriend the exact same day I spoke up and asked out the girl I wanted to date.
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I totally hear you! Thats exactly how I feel.
I have only had one boyfriend, and he only asked me out because his FRIEND asked me out for him, when really he wanted to ask out my sister....
I have never been kissed before, and sometimes my sisters make fun of me for that. Like call me a prude (if you dont know what that is, its when you havnt done ANYTHING with a guy)
ANd it is kind of true... I havnt done anything with a guy.
Just remember, Your not alone. You'll find that special guy soon. I promise.
Just hold on tight girl. You'll find a guy. You might feel lonely, but if you hang around your friends, you'll feel better, like have a sleepover. Thats what I do.
Your not alone. You'll find a guy. I promise! :)
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