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overcoming shyness
i am a very shy person, even when i am around people i know i always feel like anything i say they are judging me about it! or that they are talking about me! i suppose its more that i am paranoid, but is there anything i can do to stop this!? please help its really embarrasing!
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i know how you feel and i know that sometimes you feel its better to just not say anything at all, but then again your around your friends so you should be able to say whatever you want. if you ever feel stupid just laugh it off and make everything out to be a joke. real friends don't judge you on the way that you act or the stupid things you say because in reality we all do stupid things, or say stupid things all the time. no one should treat you badly just because of something you say so just try to laugh it off and be happy and things will go your way. sometimes you need to just be around a lot of people a lot in order to get used to not feeling so shy anymore. a lot of people in this world judge a lot about everything especially if your in highschool but you shouldn't worry about it.. just act yourself and just remember that real friends won't judge you and if they do, you'll know to just find new friends its as easy as that =)
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I'm actually pretty shy, too. Well, sometimes. I've overcome it, pretty much.. I still have my times. I've actually had the feeling that people think i'm stuck up because I don't talk around them [because I don't know them]. I actually got over it by joining my Church drama group [you don't have to join a church drama group, but its fun. maybe school or something] & I joined my schools dance team. It's really fun. & it does help getting over your shyness. Today, 7 of us did a drama infront of about 200 people at Church and I wasn't that shy. So, it's something to get into if you want to get over your shyness. It also helps because now i'm not afraid to go talk to people.
Nikki.
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I have a friend that is really shy. Some people do judge her because of it but they dont say uhh shes shy i dont want to hang out with her its more like they think she doesnt like them and is being rude by not talking to them. if you do like a person and want to hang out and be friends with them get their email address you would be more comfterable talking to them online first so when you do hang out with them or see them somewhere you will know them better and you wont come off as rude. hope i helped
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I've never really been shy, but I didn't have very high self esteem either and I used to be just like you described. Finally after building my confidence in a lot of areas of my life, I quit doing this without even trying. So try building up your self esteem and see if the "paranoia" goes away.
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it's time to stop caring what vpeople might think and live for you. stop caring so much and just chill. everythingwould go good.
Jazzy**
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well just chill.like dont care what people think about you.and dont babal because you arte nevous and dont know what to say.and dont say anything stupid or rood.then you should be cool.
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maybe your and they are juging you. that means they either dont like you or they dont know you enough. so either find new friends or hang out/ talk to yours more.maybe ask them or even someone more proffesional
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Don't worry what they think!! If they judge you for who you are, it's not worth it! Just be crazy!!! lol Don't worry too much what you say, be yourself! Just think what's the worst that could happen, they don't like me? oh well, you have other friends that aren't shallow! Just HAVE FUN!!lol
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