okay. i have a super-creepy stalker, and i talked about it at work and after that my friend called him and told him to leave me the hell alone because i told him to. the thing is.. i never said that. then my stalker got real mad and said " mind your own f-ing buisness a-hole!" and now im really afraid... for both myself and my friend. now i have to go back to school in a month and i have to see him everyday. im so worried that he is going to hurt me because he really doesnt respect authority at all. and i dont really want to talk to him at all because thats how this whole stalking thing began-- with me being nice to him. im so confused and everytime i see him i start shaking and my heart pumps really fast. do i need therapy or something? help me
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? Mz_Bitch answered Monday August 2 2004, 6:36 pm: ...ok yea stalkers are really creepy and it doesn't help when your bf finds it funny..but you honestly you need tell a counselor or your bf..if no ones gonna do nething about it or help at all you honestly need to call the guy and tell him how u feel or if your to afraid to do that (which i would be) then call the cops, tell your princapal, or a teacher your trust alot. they can honestly help. hope i helped.
vanna answered Monday August 2 2004, 1:40 am: no not at all hun u did nuttin rong u need to call the police u dont need therpy he needs therpy i feel bad dont go ^ to him he might try dum so tell yur parents or the skool or the polioce okay.
LilMia811 answered Friday July 30 2004, 10:48 pm: go report him to someone... if he bugs you at school tell a councelor... the kid sounds freakin nuts... or get someone to kick his ass and tell him to leave you alone... you shouldn't have to walk with fear [ LilMia811's advice column | Ask LilMia811 A Question ]
icey0990 answered Friday July 30 2004, 12:39 pm: Dont let someone rule your life like that! Call the police and have them do something! Get a restraining order out agaisnt him! Tell your mom,dad, anyone!
Its unfair to live your life in fear..i would be as scared as you are.
Its not fair to you..your friends..or family to see you suffer and be afraid. get that creep off the street so you can live your life! Sitting around is the worst thing to do about it!
Until then..travel in groups when you go out..etc.
AdviceMistress answered Friday July 30 2004, 11:34 am: the best thing 2 do in a sitation like this is 2 just call the police ...that's the best thing i can think of!!
brunettebabe answered Friday July 30 2004, 10:09 am: tell mr.brown AGAIN....we all kno he is very creepy.just dont worrie about it u got a boyfriend to take care of u.i knew it was your question when i saw a-hole on there..bye
TheAdviceGuru answered Friday July 30 2004, 10:02 am: Just call the cops, what hes doing is harrasing you and thats illegal. and no you dont need therapy in fact theres nothing wrong with you but more like your stalker that has no life [ TheAdviceGuru's advice column | Ask TheAdviceGuru A Question ]
ClurBur answered Friday July 30 2004, 7:00 am: Dont give him the benefit of the doubt! It must be hard for you and your friend, but you've gotta ignore it as much as possible - dont show him your scared and he'll probably back off! make sure you tell a parent tho just so they are aware whats going on! [ ClurBur's advice column | Ask ClurBur A Question ]
HyperactiveMiss answered Friday July 30 2004, 4:48 am: Try to ignore him. Don't drag your friends into it...they may make it worse, as you've already experienced. Ignoring should do the trick. If he doesn't stop, talk to him about it...if you talk to him in person, make sure you have someone by your side so that you're safe. If he still doesn't back off, and you're really worried/bothered by this, you should definitely seek an adult's help. Tell your parents, a teacher, anyone you trust. [ HyperactiveMiss's advice column | Ask HyperactiveMiss A Question ]
xOxrerexOx answered Friday July 30 2004, 3:25 am: if he is really stalking you , you need to try to stay away from him. If you are going to see him everyday in school you should tell someone in the school or your parents and they can try to figure something out , or get something so he cant bother you anymore. Just try not to talk to him , and not get your friends involved because if you get him mad your not gonna know what he will do. Hope I helped! =) [ xOxrerexOx's advice column | Ask xOxrerexOx A Question ]
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