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Okay im 17 i will be 18 n feb n there is this boy that i talk to on the net n like i met him a couple times n talked to him n he is 15 wont be 16 intill march n like i can tell him anything n i think im sorta getting feelings for him but i dont know if i should date him since he is 15 n younger them me .. n my friends what will they think>
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well if u do sum wit him it will be statatory rape so go out wit him then wen he is 18 do wat u want
luv vanna
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who cares what you're friends think. if you like him then they should like him, if they are your real friends. age is just a number, if you like him go for it. Good Luck! :)
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If he makes you happy, and if he wants to go out with you, go for it. Everyone says age is just a number, but you know that's not true, however, your not that much older than he is. when your 27, he'll be 25. Who cares what your friends think. Just go for it. if things don't work out, then they don't, but you won't be able to say you didn't try.
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I think you should go out with him if you have feelings for him. Who cares what anyone thinks about it. It should be your decision not anyone elses.
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If u have feelings for him and u think ya have a connection then dont care wat people think as long as ur happy and he is happy. remember u make ur decions not ur friends.
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dont worry about wut ur friends think!! its a relationship btween u and this boy..NO ONE ELSE!!! if they have a prob. with it tell them 2 pull that stick outa their asses!! lol! but if u like him dont let anything stop u frm havin a relationship!! hope it all wrks out!
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Honestly, I would keep the guy as a friend. Online friends are great. You can tell them anything, like you said! I had a crush on one of my online friends, I've known him for years now. I just kept us as friends, and my crush eventually went away. Now we're friends, and I'd much rather prefer him as a friend.
Being a few years younger doesn't matter. What does matter is that you met him online. The online world let's you be whoever you want to be. Lie a bit and you can be 25 if you want. You don't know for sure if this guy is who he really says he is. You've never met him in person, so you'll never know him 100%. What if he has another girlfriend and never told you about it?
Even if you DID trust the guy, there's the obstacle of meeting him. Meeting him could be dangerous. He could be some psycho killer. If he didn't turn out to be a psycho killer, that's good, but how will the two of you date if you guys "hooked up"? It'd be really hard to keep that kind of long distance relationship.
If you just wanted him as an online boyfriend...that's just sad. You can find plenty of other people that are REAL. Plenty of guys to look out for.
Just about everyone's had an online crush. Some even think they're in "love", but the truth is it's probably not as good as they think it is.
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Age is just a number. I mean you know he's not some old man, because you said you've met him a couple of times. You can't control your heart, meaning you can't control who you like. If you like him, then tell him just be like "I know I'm 18 and your 16, but I have feelings for you and I want to know how you feel about me" And for your friends, you shouldn't worry about what other people think, if you like him then you like him. Don't worry about what other people think of you and him, you're the one dating him, not them. Hope this helps!
xoxo Kourtney
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It really isnt that big of a age difference , and if you really like him then you shouldnt care what your friends think , because they arent the ones going out with him or that like him. Hope i helped!
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#1--who cares bout what ur friends think?
#2--i think u should go for it!!!
but the thing is, is that are u sure that he doesnt wanna date u cause he thinks that he'll seem kool having an older gf?? think bout that..i dunno him or u so i cant say..but if u dont think thats tha case, go for it. just remember, hes way younger and his mentality is at a different level as urs..
~kristin
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If you like the guy, you shouldn't worry about what your friends will think - only what you do. They're not gonna be dating him, you are!
It's perfectly fine to date someone younger than you, but keep in mind that you, being a girl, are automatically more mentall mature than he is to begin with.
The final decision is yours, but don't let your friends influence you! You have to decide.
Hope I helped!
-Siren =)
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If your friends are true friends, they won't care. And also, if you have doubts about it maybe you should get to know him better, or maybe hes just not the one. Try it out and if it works, thats great, but you said you can tell him anything, so he'll make a great friend if things don't work out. Follow your <3!!!
-Tessa
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age aint nothing but a number. if you like him, who cares what anyone thinks?
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