ok i have been seeing this kid for like a month and im really starting to like him alot... but we are just "dating" and now his ex is like trying to jump back in... which i think shes a total bitch and he knows i do... is this just jealousy im feeling or is there something i can do. i hope she doesnt steal him... .
Siren_Cytherea answered Friday July 23 2004, 6:54 pm: Nicole,
does your guy realize what his ex is trying to do? If not, you might want to point it out to him that you think she's trying to jump back into the picture, and it's making you feel uncomfortable. He may be able to reassure you that nothing will happen between him and his ex.
If he doesn't reassure you in any way, shape or form, you might want to confront his ex. Save that as a last resort, though. Last thing you want is a feud between you and your guy's ex. Not fun.
Hope I helped!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
andrizzle21 answered Friday July 23 2004, 5:01 pm: ok well, you need to hold back your feelings a lil bit!!! and make sure ur not rushing this..his ex can take him away, old feelings for her can come back. i know u probably dont wanna hear that but its the truth..let things run smoothly, and talk 2 him about it and tell him how u feel and that u dont want 2 lose him and that u can give him more than she can..i hope things go ok!! xoandrea [ andrizzle21's advice column | Ask andrizzle21 A Question ]
karlyndarlin05 answered Friday July 23 2004, 4:45 pm: well if ur bf goes back to his ex then it just means that he still liked her when he was goinout w/ you, so he wouldnt be worth worring about. but if he really does love you then, you should have to worry about him even thinking about his ex. Ps jealously is very very common.. a lot of ppl are jealous of at least one thing! [ karlyndarlin05's advice column | Ask karlyndarlin05 A Question ]
irock2008 answered Friday July 23 2004, 4:31 pm: Well if you are really in love with this guy then go ahead and ask him out i asked this guy out that i liked and we are now together [ irock2008's advice column | Ask irock2008 A Question ]
xHeartxOfxGoldx answered Friday July 23 2004, 4:20 pm: Nicole
If this guy really likes you then he shouldn't let his exes ways influence him.. if he does then hes not worth your time.. now is he??? But there are ways to make it clear to her that you 2 are an item and not them... hold his hand in public (alot while shes around) Hugg alot in front of her.. kiss in front of her.. and if she trys giving you attitude then tell it like it is.. and let her know that he is your man and she can just forget it. Dont be afraid to speak up or else you will let him get away. Also talk to this guy and ask him if he could maybe tell her and make it clear to her that hes with you and that there not going to "happen" so she can stop trying...
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HollyAnn2282 answered Friday July 23 2004, 4:15 pm: I'm sure its just jealousy... I am the same way dont worry! but you can talk to him and tell him how you feel. Fight for him girly! Get what you deserve! good luck
-holly-
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AdviceMistress answered Friday July 23 2004, 4:12 pm: don't worry as long as u have him and his feelings about u are strong then u have nothin 2 worry about!!! but if he is thinking about her u need 2 talk 2 him and tell him 2 4get about her and think about his current relationship now!!
dancergal1024 answered Friday July 23 2004, 4:12 pm: I think you and her are both jealous if your boyfriend really like you he will stay with you even if she tries hard as hell to get him back he is YOUR boyfriend not hers she just needs to realize that [ dancergal1024's advice column | Ask dancergal1024 A Question ]
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