Ok heres the problem...my neighbor is the hottest thing, hes a redneck about 15. And i really like him. We were friends when we were younger but his parents got divorced and now he comes down here on the weekends. There was never anything like sexual tension between us until now. But the pathedic part about this I havn't talked to him. i am super nervous and afraid. Of what? I guess rejection. What should I do? I wanna see where we could go? Please help...
BTW: 14 in April : Female
p_rOd answered Saturday March 5 2005, 11:03 pm: just start a sweet little convo when you see him and then maybe invite him inside or sumthing
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Cath answered Saturday March 5 2005, 8:34 pm: Hi Sweetie,
You are afraid... of rejection... of the unknown thoughts that could go in his mind... of all the wrong things that could go wrong... of just the mere fact that its a possibility. Anything can happened. You can't know what happen... its not in your control.
Anyway. How much do you like him? Is it worth taking the risk? Would you rather be friends 100% sure you'll be friends and wonder if somethng could of happened betwen you and wait for him to make a move for maybe forever OR risk your safe friendship, put yourself out there, and take a chance? No matter what you choose, its okay. There is no wrong answer. Its up to you.
Take care Good luck Best wishes! ~Blessed Be... [ Cath's advice column | Ask Cath A Question ]
qotsa369 answered Saturday March 5 2005, 6:48 pm: Wait, you've never talked to him and yet there is sexual tension? Lmao! Haha, If I read that wrong I'm sorry, but if I read it right your a loser. [ qotsa369's advice column | Ask qotsa369 A Question ]
XxJeSSeGeRbiLxX answered Saturday March 5 2005, 4:48 pm: labels are bad. but anyway, just go talk to him, if he rejects you just be like whatever, who cares there are hotter guys. but im sure he wont. just go up to him and be like hey wuts up? and thats it, now you'll be on a 'hi' basis and he'll notice you every time now. [ XxJeSSeGeRbiLxX's advice column | Ask XxJeSSeGeRbiLxX A Question ]
ThugGirl041790 answered Saturday March 5 2005, 3:42 pm: Hun* jus go over and talk to him... youll never find out if you get rejected til you do something... i mean yea you could get rejected but so what.. theres other guys out there and you and him can continue to be friends.. if you dont get rejected then everything is cool.. but you have to say something to find out..much luv dez [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
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