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Boyfriends..?
Ok, so there is this kid that likes me and I like him. I talk to him on the phone and at school. One day we got into the subject of boyfriends and girlfriends. So I said we would be like perfect and he goes yea let me think about it? Its been a month. How do I bring the subject back up, or do I just let it go?
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i think you should just bring it up as a joke, like 'yea you know me and you would be a perfect couple right' or i donno somthing like that. the reason he didnt say anything is probably because he doesnt know how to bring it up either.
hope i helped
=) martyna
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anonymous -
I hate to be the one to tell you this, but if it's been a month and you haven't received a response, most likely this guy has already decided no but is afraid to tell you so he plays it off hoping you'll forget about it.
I'm sorry hun, but good luck! :)
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He probably doesn't want you anymore. ;(
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i think that if he really liked you he would have brought it back up already. but maybe hes just a little too shy to. theres no harm in bringing it back up yourself though. look at it this way, if you dont bring it up you have a 100% chance of not dating him. but if you bring it up itll either be a yes or no, only making it a 50% chance you wont date. get what im saying? you have nothing to lose here.
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tell him how you feel don't just let it go. tell him does he know or not. and tell him that if he needs more time then fine. but why son't you get to know each other better by maybe going and hanging at the movies with or without friends.
*BeSs*
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bring it back up. you like him, he likes you, and maybe he doesn't know what to say. you should bring the subject up again. hope i helped
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Ask him out. You don't have to bring up the discussion, just ask him out.
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Well this guy must be shy or not really like you.. cause he hasnt brought that back up... jus ask him like how is love life or something like that.. jus be real with the guy and come out see whats up with it,. i mean i think if he hasnt brought it up he most likely isnt interested more then jus friends... but he could be shy im not sure cause i dont know him but find out...mcuh luv dez
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So you do sound like a good couple. But it's been a month? There are 2 things that may have happened..
1) He could have forgotten. Bring the subject back up by subtley saying "So about us being boyfriend/girlfriend, what do you think?" If your so close it shouldn't be awkward.
2) He really just doesn't want to be with you. Sorry, that sounds harsh doesnt it? Well hope this all helped..
-Holly
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