ok i have this friend and he's a guy and hes really cute but were just friends and we like to do sexual things but we havent had sex or anything. i showed him things and he's showed me things on our bodys.well we got into 3 fights and when we stop talking to each other he always comes and apologizes to me and i forgive him. now its a regular day in school and he calls my cell phone and askes me to come get him out of class so we can have sex in the stairwell in school. i wanna have sex with him but then im not sure were like really close friends and having sex with him it wont be the same after because it will be akward talking to him after we have sex. well if any one can give me some advice please cwrite back
ThugGirl041790 answered Saturday March 5 2005, 3:37 pm: Well um okay you guys do sexual things other then have sex and you want to do more... well um having sex with him could bring you closer or farther apart...but if this guy is going to take your virginity i would not have sex with him.. i think if you do that you will regret it...but other then that i still think you shouldnt do it... you probably dont think you'll feel used now or when you have sex with him but you could later.... i know i would feel used cheap and like a hoe if i did that.. but you might look at it different..um and doin it in a stairwell doesnt sound too nice.. if your going to have sex with him do it in a bed or somewhere private.. and if you get caught doin that in a stairwell by like some kid who knows what will get spread around about you guys.. you dont wanna hurt your rep or anything at your school..much luv dez [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
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