Ok so there is this *amazing* guy and i like him alot, and everytime i see/hang out with him i like him even more.. We went out before but it didnt last long, but people have been tellin me he likes me again And last night we hung out a lil and talked and all at this bandfest thing.. Then me n my friend and this other guy walked to the bleachers, then when we came back after a long while he didnt even talk to me or come near me.. o wait he came up to me once and hugged me, but then wen the night was up me and my bff were walkin behind him and he was with this girl and other guy.. he didnt even hug me bye or n e thing, i think i must have done somethin to ruin it but i cant think of anything, i really hope he didnt meet someone and now has a girlfriend or else ill be crushed.. can anyone tell me a way to get him to notice that i like him alot without me havin to tell him, or can anyone give me any advice towards this??
xxBrOkEnxx answered Saturday April 16 2005, 3:41 pm: this may sound stupid but write a poem,and explain in it how you feel.or you can talk to him,but that will involve you to tell him straight out,just be creative. but i think the best way it to tell himyour self face to face [ xxBrOkEnxx's advice column | Ask xxBrOkEnxx A Question ]
karenR answered Saturday April 16 2005, 3:02 pm: I do think you should talk to him. Even if you don't want to. Not to ask him if he likes you though. Just go tell him how much fun you had etc.. See if he say's anything. Could be he got involved in a conversation and you were gone before he could get back to you...or maybe you were with other friends, could have been anything. Don't write him off yet. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
XxLiiLSiiNgErXX answered Saturday April 16 2005, 2:15 pm: honestly I think that your only other option IS to tell him. and if you do decide to take my advice just go up to him and ask him if you guys could talk. Then be like "listen..I really jut wanted to tell you that I like you. But I dont want to freak you out or anything in case you dont like me.. But I just wanted to see if there was anything going on between us" or something like that. Really it works.. and it helps to getit off of your chest to!
Ashley [ XxLiiLSiiNgErXX's advice column | Ask XxLiiLSiiNgErXX A Question ]
Aunty_Anna answered Saturday April 16 2005, 1:43 pm: you seem quite shy... especially around this boy, which isn't useful!! you definetly need to tell him how you feel, or if not tell show him in a different way.... maybe kiss him and see how he reacts!! if its bad then forget it but if its a good reaction then you know your in there!! and nothing needs to be said, all you need to do is find 1) the right place - when your alone together! 2) the right time - don't jump straight into it talk to him first as you may receive a hint from him that he doesn't like you!! to give you confidence look at it as 1) you don't actually need to tell him (most people who try and talk about their feelings either bail out or it comes out wrong!!) 2) if you don't try then you'll regret it!! Good Luck!!! [ Aunty_Anna's advice column | Ask Aunty_Anna A Question ]
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