ok this guy that is a friend of mine that i love ( we are planning to hook up once we find a way to meet up with each other more often...) but anyways my best friend told me that i should be callin him all the time and talkin to him all the time. basically give him some space.. and like sometimes when he says he is going to call me back and he doesnt do it then i dont call him until he tell me to or he calls me. is that a bad thing?? but right now he feels like i have lost interasit in him. which isnt true at all i still love him and i want to be with him what should i do?? i dont call as much as i used to because i want to give him some space you noe..but he says he wants me to call more and talk to him more because he loves talkin to me but i dont know what to do.. i dont want to losse this guy. please help!!!
The best thing you can do is ask him how he feels. If he wants to talk to you, tell him you'd like for him to occasionally take the initiative and call.
XxLiiLSiiNgErXX answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 11:03 pm: Ask him what he wants. Tel him that you dont know what to do with yourself that you dont know if you should still call him and what not as much as you have been. Ask him when is a good time to call him and tell him that you havent lost interest in him. Hop I helped!
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ALWAYSx0xAM0R0US answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 10:58 pm: If you love talking to him, and he loves talking to him, TALK TO EACHOTHER! You give him space..and if he NEEDS IT, NEEDS IT, he will ask! Please talk to him for me! Before he thinks you don't care, or you don't like him. And we don't want that to happen! This guy likes you and wants to be with you! Follow your heart..you should tell him you havn't been calling because you thought he needed space, he will understand. Spend time together and talk. It will be what you both need. I hope I helped. [ ALWAYSx0xAM0R0US's advice column | Ask ALWAYSx0xAM0R0US A Question ]
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