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so stupid!
Have you noticed if a girl has sex they are called a slut and when a guy has sex they get more popular. I dont understand it please someone explain it to me or give your opinion on it!!
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Yeah, i don't understand either. I feel just as confused about that as you do hun. Man, it's like woman are supposed to be the ladies and guys can be as wild as ever. But if girls don't give it up a guy says she's a virgin mary and make fun of her about not giving the goods up or they would just lie to his friends and say he did it with her anyway to look like the big man. I don't know why that is but i think it's messed up!! HOPE I HELPED OUT!!
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ok well a boy isnt called anything becuz they were able to get the girl to have sexs. But the girl is called a slut becuz she let him go fare with her when she should of said NO!!
its really a gay thing how a girl gets judged like that but u no thats life.
Kris
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well when a girl does it shes called a slut cause she had sex with a guy its weird but when a guy has sex with a girl he becomes more popular because they think hes the bom and so cool when girl does it shes usually not called a slut unless shes done it many times before .. hope i helped JESSiCA
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Guys are idiots lol, if they do something with a girl it boosts there ego, most guys make it up to make him seem big and like hes everything. Guys think that just because a girl had sex they can be called sluts because men rule the world and there very preduced agains women!
luv roxie
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Omg i know what your thinking here! If a girl does it there a slut if a guy does it twenty times they "score" a girl! I dont understand it either! but i think we have something to do with it too. Because girls in there sns they always have to have hott, sexy, baby, something to provoke that if ya know what i mean but theres so many ways to look at it! But i think everyone knows what you are talkin about!
xoxo BLONDE911
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i think that is stupid too. Well girls are supposed to be more mature about sex and wait until marriage..therefor it is difficult for a guy to get a girl to have sex with him...they think its some kind of accomplishment. Guys are dirty pigs.
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ew i hate that!!! just like in the cant hold us down song with lil kim "the guy gets all the glory the more he can score while the girl can do the same and yet you call her a whore" i dont understand it either.. the guys are called the pimps and were called the hoes... it makes no sense
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yeah its retarded. lesson here: dont have sex with someone who likes to kiss n tell. <3
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It's all trash. If the boy kisses and tells, it means he isn't mature enough to be having sex. noone should know your business. Having sex is a big deal, and with it comes risks, so always be precautious, and careful.
xoxo
_Granny
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I totally agree. its cuz guys arent as sensitive plus they couldnt take half of what we take. they'd just kill themselves. Girls are stronger. We are better... no secret. Guys are just dumb (not all) but alot have the idea that they can push us around and use us. But we needa learn to prove them wrong.. i guess when a girl sleeps around alot they are pushovers..-trix
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genetics demand it of us.
in reality, its the fault of women, this is going to be long and totally unbiased, so don't jump to the conclusion that I am a bastard just yet.
society is based upon one key factor; reproduction and security. men by nature are roving bastards looking for a piece of ass to score and a pack of cigarettes to smoke afterwards, nomadic and highly destructive.
take the huns for example, nomadic, male dominated and brutally effective at mass murder.
they rape and pillage entire cities because... well, its fun. the entire culture was built on the philosophy of roving eurasia looking for a fight. simple and to the point.
more complicated cultures evolved once women started taking a more active stance in the heirarchy. towns and cities were built to nurture and construct a sense of security for said broads. the foundations were laid for the marriage issue: marriage in its most basic form is the psychological construct ofsecurity, emotional, somewhat physical, and financial(relative). a way to ensure that daddy stays around to bring the fruit of labor to the table and otherwise provide for the family. most women like this comfort and security, as it aids in the growth of the offspring. this problem of yours is a wonderful instinctive by-product of the two different doctrines. men(me included) believe that the more women pegged, the better. this explains the popular term "stud".
stud-theory has been corrupted and altered by female influence to involve the counterpart objectifying concept; the "slut-factor".
due to a need to (in my opinion) babble needlessly about such topics, women try to isolate and demonize these anti-secuity types.
subconsciously, women see these as a threat to their behind-the-scene rule and mental dominance. In their minds, this could fracture their hold upon men, and bring about the collapse of society and all of its child-rearing benefits. women in the workplace: an observation.
ever since the 1940s, women have taken an active role in the laborforce. this spawned many bad points in the first world economy. the 60s, the 70s, the 80s, the 90s, hell, since the beginning.
these children reared from 1945-present have been one big stream of progressively more fucked up countercultures; from hippies to these dudes who wear bitchpants. the very struggle that has held society together is now beginning to destroy it. the economy thrives off its own eventual collapse, making a dual income almost impossible to avoid. thus further tearing the stable family to small bands of unrestricted anarchy. its a catch-22, impossible to fix. so enjoy the ride and buy guns, lots of them. thank you and good night.
-hitler
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Yes.. and also notice how girls are called lushes and everything when they drink or something. I find this just absolutly repulsive.. I mean.. If a girl even so much as goes out with more than one guy in a year they are called a slut. Guys just get a bigger ego.. maybe all Girls should get a bigger ego about being called a "slut" and be like "yea? so what at least I got some.. I dont see you gettin as much as me" or something.. maybe for once something will change!
**Ashley
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Yes I have. It has been that way forever.
I'm afraid I don't know why exactly.
Do you know that way back in the 1800's if a woman got divorced she was considered one too?
I got pregnant when I was a senior in high school.That was 1975.I took a lot of grief for that then.Friends would have nothing to do with me even.Well, I thought they were friends!So, you can imagine what it must have been like way back!
So, while some things have changed...even since 1975.Some stigma stay around for ages.I mean,getting preggers in high school is unfortunatley not all that uncommon these days and girls are no longer thought of as "BAD". By most people anyway.And they can continue with school,If i'd have been found out I probably would have been kicked out of school!
Guy's on the other hand, are considered really a stud! My husband, Yes we've actually been married 30 yrs in June! Took some ribbing but was not considered a slut or anything near!
Sorry for running on and on.But hopefully one of these days girls won't get the worst end of the deal here.It is totally unfair!Since I didn't sleep around and my hubby was the only one I'd ever been with, I don't feel that I fell into the slut catagory, and neither do most of the other girls who get called one!There have been some changes. Let's hope for more!:}
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in my oppinion guys are like yes ! you did it! but when it comes to girls they are like i cant belie she did that how gross. i dont know what it is that makes it like that but i get called a slut because i go out w alota guys and like all the guys i go out with go out with a bunch of girls and they dont get made fun of or called anything so i guess its just a way of life . and i dont see y other people should get in the business of any one else any wyas . so sry i couldnt answer ur question but hope i helped.
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Because it is our natural instinct to reproduce and to get as many girls as we can. It is in yall's to settle down. We have acheived our goal,yall haven't. We're praised,you're not. Life's a bitch huh?
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go listin 2 chritina agulara and lil kim bitch about it in their song
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Men rule the world. Unfair, but true. Women used to rule the world, but at one point it switched. All the stories were changed around. Eve was now the bad one, Adam was awesome. The Greek Goddesses were less important than the male Gods. But if you look closely enough, you will see that the female characters are more intelligent and have more dimensions than the useless male characters. And women who heard those stories though, "Oh, I am just a useless woman." Not to mention centuries of women being degraded in several disgusting ways. And do you believe there are people who blame a woman if she is raped? Terribly sad, but also terribly true. What can we do about this injustice? Hm, there is probably something...but it's after 1 am and I'm really waaay too tired to organize a revolution right now. Good luck.
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i dont understand it at all either...but the only logical explanation i can think of is that in the older days, guys were known to have power and then as time came along they were known to have many girls at the same time and be players ..that was considered cool...and now, thats what it evolved into. but girls were ALWAYS expected to be ladies and nice little girls. so by the way the world is now, with girls sleeping around and having sex...is considered discusting and slutty because thats not what girls were always looked at through time. get back to me and lemme kno what you think.
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hmm.. yea. i've totally wondered about that before. i mean, honestly. the media displays guys as more powerful and important people than woman and when their getting ass it makes them look good, but by us giving it out it degrades us. i don't get that. personally, i blame it on the media in the news, magazines, tv...everywhere. look around, our world is so sexist and everything else. for example, i was flipping through a magazine the other day and 2-5 of the ads displayed guys as being superior. one of them, had a guy with his hands on a womans face or whatever, and the woman looked helpless while he looked powerful. so who really knows?! <3 hope i helped <3 *britt
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Well, I think that girls are precieved as sluts becaue guys feel they have more power and authority which is obviously not true. I trully don't understand the reason that when a sirl has sex they are known as sluts but when a guy has sex they brag about it or get more popular as you said. I guess that's just a guy's ponit of view about it, but I feel that in this matter they should be treated equally. Guys are hoes too (You know what I mean). I hope I helped!
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i c it this way because a guy usually is more involved in sex and would want it more than women, so when a guy has sex, all his friends think he's really lucky and shit. but girls, most of them, think of it the other way around where they aren't into sex to the level a guy is, so when a girl has sex they are called sluts and whores cause the girls around them think it was sick of them to do that. but the thing is, girls have more sex than guys do. 2/3 of all girls have sex before the age of 15. while only 1/2 of men have sex before 15. i hope i informed you about why this stuff happens and shit.
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I've noticed it happen a few times. Some guys think girls are subhuman, they think they are boss and girls should only be with one of them or something. They give each other high fives for every chick they 'score' with and expect these girls to be the humble house wife (or whatever) that only want to be with that guy... If they move on, they are called sluts because guys are jealous. That's what I've learned from the experiences I've seen with friends and family... =D
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I noticed that too and I think its bull sh*t!! Its so immature and who ever says that stuff is totally messed up! The guys get popular because their buddies think its "cool" but to the girls its not. I mean a lot more guys wanna have sex then girls so when a girl has sex they think its slutty. Personally I dont think thats a slut. A slut is someone who sleeps around with a whole bunch of guys. People who say that have no life and they obviosly dont know what they are talking about!! Thats just my opinion! x0 ` __
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