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Liar
My best friend and i never told lies to each other when we were younger but now were both 14 things seem like they changed she's constantly lying to my face and i can't figure out if she's telling the truth or not anymore.What should i do i mean we're both going to different high schools next year and i still want us to be friends...???
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no more lies
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If my best friend lied to me i would be really mad. You should really ask her yourself ask her why shes lying to now.
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..as things change people do too..maybe you might need to realize that things may not work out..if things dont fall apart now..they most lily will in high school if she lies she doesnt love you...find someone you love and that loves you back..
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Well, i have thisproblem with my friend that moved away. Just confront your friend and tell her that you know she is lying to you about things, tell her that if you knew the truth your friendship could be stronger. Hope I Helped.
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well if she tells you lies then she is probaly not the best friend a person can have, or just tell her to stop lying to you.
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I know how you feel. My two best friends moved to diff schools and I was left with a friend who considered me her best friend and she likes to constantly lie to my face. You just need to tell her to stop. Tell her that best friends don't lie to each other. She's obviously not your best friend if shes lying to you. First asj her nicely to stop then you have to get more aggressive about it.
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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i had a best friend who did this too. the thing is she lied about everything for a year straight. and it sounds mean, but the only way i could get her to stop was to finally just catch her in a lie right as she said it and confront her about it very firmly. she got mad at me for it, but then she call me that night and told me she was sorry, she shouldn't have done it, she understood why we (my friend and i) were mad, and she'd never do it again. and as far as i know, she never did. i hope i could be of some help.
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You definitely need to talk to your best friend and ask her why she is always lying to you. A best friend would never lie to another best friend. What she is doing is wrong and she needs to stop. If she is your best friend, she should understand that you want her to stop lying. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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Hmm * Talk to her about it. That's all you can do. Just tell her it hurts when she lies and sometimes if you look her deep in the eyes you can tell what's the truth and what's not * Good Luck. I wish i could help more =(
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Well if shes always lying to you, maybe she isnt a good friend to you afetr all.....think about it. Why would you want a friend who doesnt trust you, or a friend that you cant really trust? But if you really think shes still a good enough person to be your friend, then make sure you set a certain time that you guys can call each other or talk online once you start going to different schools. Sit down with her and tell her that you have been feeling like you guys are drifting from your friendship, and that you want her to be able to tell you anything and to not have to think she has to lie. Im the same age as you and im going through the same stuff....its hard i know. Hope i helped!
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The same thing happened to me and my friend...but once i made a pact with her that we will only tell eachother the truth and tell eachother what we said about eachother recent or past... we have to tell eachother... so that we can have a line of trust open, and so maybe you guys can try the same thing...It really helped us out... we did it like 3 years ago and we are still friends with a really strong relationship! :-D
Hope I helped!
**Ashley
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i think you should tell her that you know that she's lying and tell her that she has probably lost all of your trust because on the constant manipulation but most importantly tell her how you feel
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