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My "friend" wont leave me alone // I
My friend and i have been friends for about a yr. I dont know if shes always been like this but shes gotten really really boring. I was talking about it to my other friend, and she agreed and said that she cant continue a conversation. Also..she hates *all* of my other friends and its annoying me. At the beggining of the school yr we were really good friends but lately shes gotten on my last nerve. Theres this one dude i like and he doesnt like me back and shes all mean about it and says..well ur mean to him and you annoy him. Shes SO friggin negative about everything and i dont know what to do, i dont want to stop being her friend completely...i just need a lot of space from her. I have other friends too and when im with them she comes up and just stands there. When i was walking with a guy she ran up to me and started walking along. She always comes out at break to see me. Its ANNOYING and i feel like i have no space. I dont know what to do or what i should say.
Anyways, the point of that whole explaination was that today at lunch i didnt want to sit in a certain spot cause the guy i like/d was there..so i walked away and she was all frustrated and like acting annoyed so i said ok if you wanna go to that spot then go , i'll just go find something else to do and i left..and i havnt seen her since then.
So..what should i do? im sorry if that was long but thats what happened.
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..wow that sounds like a situation i am in and she even uses the word friggen but the ending is diff. so i know you arent her but anyways... tell her how you feel and if she cant understand she isnt worth it!
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I think that you should tell her how you feel and that you just need some space for yourself. About her being boring well just try to find some things in common like music, sports, or fashion.
hope i was able to help.
-poopiepantsgirly*
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well just tell your friend how you feel and say you need to have ur own space
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explain to her, that you need some space and time to yourself in a nice way. and for the boring part, try yourself to spice up her life a little bit, like find things in common, like music. listen to cds together or find a movie you both enjoy. or find a boy that she thinks is cute and then maybe she'll be caught up in him and won't be so boring anyway. also, try talking to her about her interrupting when you're with friends, tell her that it makes her seem kind of rude, and if you dont mind when she comes along except that she just stands there: just ask her when she comes along to try to be social in the conversation.
Hope i helped!
*~KaYlA~*
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