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I need help! REAL bad
I am 13, I live in The Conroe area in Texas and I am very sexually active. It seems as if all my guy friends preasure me to do it. Like my friend Kellen... he always pushes himself up on me and I try to say NO but he does it anyways... once we start It doesn't really bother me.. but I really wanta stop!! and every1 asks me if I like Kellen or if we did have sex I always try to deny it cause I don't know what to do... Kellen's friedn Andy, always trys to have sex with me too! but I don't know! I don't want it to happen! what can I do to get them to stop? PLEASE help me!
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Learn to says no and mean it. A knee to the groan will stop them in there tracks.Let them know stright up that you aren't there sex toy and makes sure they get that you get that by them really clear.
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ok hey! this is a girl having the same problem! ur not the only one! ok... first of all...i know BOTH OF THEM! they BOTH need 2 LAY THE HECK OFF! both of them try 2 do that with my friends and i 2! if they try 2 do that again they are goin out with my 2 best friends now...so if andy tries to do it remind him about his g/f rachel and kellen...remind him about his g/f bailey! if they EVER do it again tell me and tell them that you are goin to tell Marissa! i will make sure they stop! i promise i wont tell them that it is you or anything! I SWEAR! i will just tell them if they try 2 push ANY girl in2 that than i will kik their butts! i swear, girl it WILL stop!
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hun if you said 'no' or told him to stop or in any way told him you didnt want it...then thats rape..now if the last time he did it was a while ago there is no proof..but the next time he does it immediatly tell you parents they will take you to a doctor and get you proof you were sexually active and you can follow through and prosacute this guy..dont feel ashamed you didnt ask for this to happen..stay strong and if you have any problems let me know..good luck hun!
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if you say NO, then it's rape. pure and simply rape. go to the police and file a rape report. it doesn't matter if you are sexually active or have had sex wid them before or not, it's rape anyway you put it.
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First of all. Grow balls yourself and hit them in the balls. They are ONLY doing it because they know they can take advantage of you and because.. well. They are assholes. 13 is a way too young age to be having sex and tell them to get off you before you punch them in the face. If they don't listen, do just what you told them you would do- punch them in the face. They deserve it, because they are acting like total jerks and they don't respect you or your body.
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You tell someone. That can be considered rape.
Very serious...
`jessie
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I can't believe this shit still happens. In case it never dawned on you, you're being raped... ALL the time. Rape, simply put, is when someone forces you to have sex. If you don't want to have sex but it is still being forced on you, then that is rape. You have a brain - use it. It pisses me off that ppl care more about their social standing at the expense of their mental/emotional state. You're an easy mark meaning that any/everyone can get sex from you since they know you won't fight back. It's time to start thinking of yourself before the shit REALLY hits the fan. Your 'guy friends' aren't friends at all. You're just a fucktoy. Sex without informed consent is rape. It's time to a) find new friends and b) call the cops since these guys will continue their behavior until someone ends up either badly hurt or worse, dead.
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hey i kno wut ur going through i went out w/ him for long time he is cool and everything and and yis very sweet all u have to say STOP RIGHT NOW KELLEN AND ANDY IM SICK OF THIS IM NOT GOING TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU GUYS SO JUST LAY OFF!!! IF THAT DOESNT WORK EMAIL ON THIS THING AND TELL ME WHO YOU ARE AND I WILL TALK TO HIM ABOUT BECAUSE WERE LKE BEST FRINEDS EVEN THOUGH I GO TO KNOX I WILL KICK HIS ASS FOR YOU AND TELL HIM TO STOP AND IF HE DOESNT KEEP TELL ME I HAVE SOMETHING I CAN DO ABOUT IT SO EMAIL ME AT RMJ928@AOL.COM GOOD LUCK AND RMEMBER NEED HELP EMAIL ME !!!
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ok... i think you should take some action... if they're not gonna listen to you when you say stop then you should show them that you can be a great friend with out having to have sex with them... or you should just stop hanging out with them... make sure they know you really don't want them to keep doing that and maybe you can tell a trusted adult if things get worse... hope i helped
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Stop! before you mess around and get pregnant. If you don't wanna stop make sure you use PROTECTION PLEASE!! I beg you, i'm happy for you that you can get some booty. Because i'm 14 and i haven't had a formal boyfriend or girlfriend yet.Another reason to stop is because this could turn into a really bad friend fight and you could be the one that is caught in the middle and all of a sudden you blamed and have no friends.Hope i helped
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i think ur way to young to be doing that kinda stuff.But if u wanna quit you have to do it cold turkey.if he preasures you leave him.yoU will miss it for a while but after a while that feeling will go.if you cant get profession help.even mastrobation is better.please try to stop.=)good luck
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So long as you let them they are going to do it.If you don't stop you are going to get a reputation that I don't think you want to have.The only problem is, you won't be able to do anything about it because it will be true.
If you don't want to do it you tell them to stop. If they continue, that is called RAPE and you call the cops.
You could do it the easy way and just stay away from them. They are not your friends they are just using you.Further more, since you are being questioned about it they are probably announcing it to anyone who will listen.
Sorry to be so harsh but you are to young to have
your life ruined by boy's who are going to wind up in jail one day by the sound of it.
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This is going to be blunt and rude, but that is how it has to be sometimes. Stop trying to blame the guys here, and keep your legs closed. Point blank. If you don't want to have sex with someone, then you shouldn't. No matter how much they push up on you. And the only reason your so-called "friend" Kellen is even doing that is because he knows that you will eventually give in to him. Now he has gone and told his friend Andy about you and him, and now Andy wants a piece. Do you not see that Kellen is using you, and trying to get his friends to do the same? Tell them to leave you alone and stop trying to make advances towards you because you are not having sex with them, or anyone else, anymore.
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hey ****** its kayla your best friend been ur best friend for 2 years it was always marrissa plus*** plus kayla i wanna give you some advice i know kellen AND andy and thats just how they are and tell them to lay off next time they do that like someone told me what kellen and andy were doing at ur house the hoodie in slow motion thing you shouldnt let them toy you around like that and tell them to lay off and tell kellen AND andy next time they do that to you kayla is gonna kick there ass if they try and have sex with you kellen did the SAME thing with me last year we were always best friends but last year when me and marissa went over to kellens house with dayton kellen did the same thing when marrissaleft the room tell him to lay off cause i swear to god ****** i will do something well love ya lots!!
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i dont know you and so maybe if you flirt alot then just lay off for awhile but if it gets out of control then take it to the next level get the cops involved becasue it is sorta like rape if you think about it and just for saftery go to the doctor and get checked for STD becasue you never know its better to be safe then sorry. i really hope i helped but you need to tell some1!
-liz/feedback
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Stay away from them, dont even hang out with them. Because their going to try to have sex with you! Just find new people to hang out with. If their still trying to do stuff with you after your ignoring them, get your parents and/or the cops involved! Thats like rape! If you ever need to talk about it, I'm always here!
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I think you should try and stay away from him! Just try to hang out with otehr people.. tell soem1 too! Get the police involved! I would also get checked for STD's!
Hope I heped! keep me posted plese!
Dani3ll3
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