i have this friend, and he is a year older than me(im 13, he is 14). we met through another friend and we have talked for a long time. He is really hott and hard to resist. we both have webcams and we had gotten naked for each other and we would do stuff for the other one to watch. he had always had a girlfriend during this time and it never seemed to bother him. about 2 weeks ago, we were gonna go on cam again. i took off my shirt and my bra and he was watching and everything was like normal, then, when it was his turn to show, he used the "i cant do this, i have a girlfriend" excuse. i dont know if he really meant it or not or if he just wanted to see and not show. that doesnt really bother me...its just now...that him and his gf broke up, he wants me to show him stuff again and i dont want to anymore. what should i tell him with out actually saying that? please help...i will rate!
karenR answered Monday March 28 2005, 1:36 am: Tell him he had his chance and blew it.Actually you both are going to be real embarrassed if someone catches you. This is really not a very good thing to do.Tell him to get his jolly's somewhere else. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
jollyholly answered Sunday March 27 2005, 10:13 pm: whoa... ok you need to stop right now!!! im 13 also, and i have no clue how you could get yourself into that!!! heres what you should do. get the webcam all hooked up and tell him your gonna do it. then, just start telling him how sick he is and that you dont wanna talk to him! just promise me youll never do it again!!! thats sick! i hope i helped!
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Dani3ll3_Lov3 answered Sunday March 27 2005, 6:24 pm: Hey! just say Uhm.. Sorry hun.. I am totally into this other guy rigth now.. and the buisness only flows one way.. and this time I am doing it in PERSON! so if you wanta ever see something again.. then you better show me a bunch before I evan start!
knoxcheer answered Sunday March 27 2005, 5:38 pm: i would say i dont want to do this anymore im only 13 and i shouldnt be doing this ! i like you and everything but it just moving to fast for me right now let me take a break for a bit! we can sit talk and hang out! i want to still! i want to be your frined still. but i cant do this right now it just doesnt feel right. [ knoxcheer's advice column | Ask knoxcheer A Question ]
Sherry answered Sunday March 27 2005, 5:34 pm: Just tell him how you feel. You dont have to do anything you dont want to. Just say I dont want to do it anymore and that should be the end of it. If he begs/pleads/gets mad then hes not that great of a guy. So yeah dont be pressured into doing it again just say no...and yeah. [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
Cath answered Sunday March 27 2005, 5:34 pm: Hi Sweetie,
Tell him you have a boyfriend and you can't do that. If he says something like "he's not here, he won't know" remind him how HE never showed cause his gilrfriend. Or just tell him you don't feel like it. But thaty's what you don't want to say... so nevermind. Tell him you have a guy. ...And he s jeolous and calls a lot or... something. Or he is watcing you on a webcam too and he will know if you are stripping and he'lll be pissed.
Take care! Good luck! ~Blessed Be... [ Cath's advice column | Ask Cath A Question ]
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