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i have a friend and she always lies to me. i tried ignoring her but she just puts me on a guilt trip and i end up being friends with her again. all of her friends talk about her behind her back because she is like... socialy chalanged. all of my other friends who dont pretend to be her friend hate her and they rnt shy about showing it. ive for the most part exepted my friend's lieing problum but i still cant believe annything she sas. can someone help me? thanx and i will rate 5s for annyone who is not jokeing or being sarcastic
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you should talk to her about it and tell her to be more truthful so that way people/you will trust her
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you shouldn't except some one lying, at all! i think next time she lies to you .. tell her. hey! i really dont like you lying to me, itz not kool. and if her "friends" talk about her behind her back.. they aren't true friends. and i would talk to them and be like . "hey ya'll what your doing, really isn't nice, she thinks ya'll are her friends, and your talking about her." and with your friends..why dont they like her? cuz she is socialy chalanged? cuz thats rude. but if it the whole lying thing.. they you really cant do anyhting about it. but talk to the girl.
hope i helped.
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I think that you should confront your friend. Tell her that her lies have led yo uto not believe her. Tell her that you love her as a friend, but her lying ways have got to stop if she expects you to trust her. I also think you should tell her that peopleare talking behind her back and that she is a turnoff socially. It may hurt her, but she deserves to know what is being said behind her back, and she needs to hear it form you because you are her friend, and that's what friends do. You should try to help her get rid of her lying ways because it will be really difficult if she handled it by herself, and if you, her friend, were there to support her through this then it wouls give her the motivation she needs to change. Stick by her the whole way through. I hope I helped!
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What you need to do is ask your friend why she lies all the time, and if that doesnt work start lying to your friend. And if nothing works just tell your friend she is a liar and be done with it.
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i remember having a friend like that once also... but she soon became distant and not my friend all together. it depends on how much you need/ or want her to be your friend and then go from there.
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i remember this girl last year who didnt really lie but just did things that ruined my life with friends..tell this girl she has one more chance and if you catch her in a lie again it's over for good. i understand that you are willing to forgive her but that doesnt mean you should be friends with her again.If you don't like being lied to then end it at her next lie.She was warned so you shouldn't feel guilty.
xO LiSa*
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i've had this happen to me before..and I can tell ya..its not that easy of a problem to solve..maybe you should try to confront her about her problem and tell her about her lying problem..and that you would just like her to tell the truth..
what kind of things does she lie about? is it like..welll, i dont know..but is she emarassed about how her life is..and so she thinks making up things about it will some how make it better? i hope i helped! tell me how it goes
<3 tori
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