Member Since: September 30, 2004
Answers: 13
Last Update: April 2, 2005
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ok well my best friend is/was having a HUGE bday party for herself (shes got a huuuuge house, an amazing pool and her parents said that max was like 60) so yeah everyone looks forward to her partys.. and ya know how it is in high school.. you cant go to a party like this without having someone to "hook up" with.. thats just how it is.. so me and this guy planned to hook up and blah blah blah.. you know how that goes.. well the party kinda got canceled and so now me and this guy are just "talking" about doin stuff like goint to the movies or w.e and "hookinh up" there but the thing is we have been talking a lot now and i think i like him.. (wich i knew this was gonna happen :/ ).. and hes telling ppl he likes me (a little) so thats a high point.. BUT (and theres always a BUT) :/ theres another girl.. that hes like IN LOVE with.. but this girl has a bf and has for a looong time now, but this bf goes to a different school then her so her and this guy i like act like they are together at school, but outa school she just totally ignores him when shes around her bf (gay huh?) and i dont go to the same school as the guy i like or this girl, and ive never met her either but everyone tells me shes really not all that pretty.. so yeah im just wondering.. should i take him out.. just me and him and show him who i really am and try to steal him away from this "other girl" and make him change his mind to want me?.. or what? (link)
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YES! girl go for it! don't make the mistake! you'll def. regret it! don't just sit there and wonder what coulda shoulda and woulda happened! go for it!
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OK... I have been with this guy for a while, we have been together for a year, and we are both head over heels in love with each other. Now, he moved here 2 years ago trying to get away from his past...because he wanted to change himself, make himself better and he definitly has. But my parents dont like the fact that he is half black and hate his past. I think they will kick me out of the house if they find out we are talking again. But I love him... What do I do? I dont want to lose the best thing thats ever happened to me... I just turned 18, and I am off to college in a few months, but my parents say they will have someone follow me. (link)
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It shouldn't matter what your parents think. follow your heart. if you love him be with him! you are 18 years old now! u can do whatever you want! you are grown! yer legal! u should let yer parents be notified of that. let them know yer not a baby nemore.
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ok..is it possible for someone to only have their period every other month??...i rate (link)
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thats when every girl gets there period.. every month.
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Hi I'm 13 and I have never been very popular and I have never had many friends at school. I was always the straight A student and the goody goody and thats just how I was. But this year I decided to try to make friends. A lot of friends. I started to bend the rules a little bit. Once I found out that I could get away with anything because I was comsidered the good child I just couldn't stop. I became very popular and started not doing my homework. I figured whats wrong with that? I'm just like evryone else I'm not weird I'm cool. But now I'm rude and I don't care about my work at all. I ruined my straight A's and now I don't know what to do. I just want to go back and be able to control my self and not have the pressure to keep my so called frineds. What can I do? (link)
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you need to go back to being yourself. no offense but u are truly being fake. trying to be someone yer NOT.
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hi, it's very weird...I think I'm happy now. It's been a week that I think my life miraculously became better. My relationships with my friends and family improved..But my dreams are the same: sad, dark, disturbing. With common themes like: mean men, men who treat me like only a sex object or have lust for me, rejection and abandonment, not being good enough, and death or running away....I've been having bad dreams since I was a child (5 yrs old?) and lately, 18-20 yrs old the dreams became more clear, vivid and the frequency of bad dreams increased.
I've been reading self-help since I was 16, and now I'm already 20, and it helped a lot, but I think it is not enough to solve my "issues" which clearly manifests in my dreams?
So, what do you think should I do to resolve my issues? what makes it hard is they are all in my "unconscious" mind so its hard to uncover them in the first place..or, maybe I haven't read the "right" book yet, if that's the case, what book should I read? (link)
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you shouldnt read books caus that does no good. you should go seek medical help and see what they can do for you.
hope i helped.
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Well here is the thing. my aunt has what they call Night Terrors. they are like nightmares. Well her husband, my uncle, Doesnt get home from work untill midnight. And my auntjust had a baby. And the doctor said to get more rest. Well she cant get more rest. Because she stays up untill my uncle gets home!!! Please help me on this one!!!!!!! please tell me what my aunt can do!!! Please!!! HELP ME!!!!!
~Karly~ (link)
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She should have someone stay with her while she gets her rest then leaves when her husband gets home.
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I've got an issue that i really need someone to help me with.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months tommrow and I'm going to lose him very soon if I keep up my issue. Whenever I get the slightest bit upset, I get very close to breaking up with him. I few times I actutally did, but he took me back withen seconds. I don't know why I do this, it's really confusing me because I promised myself and him I'd stop. The first time I did this he cried. Yes I know, a guy crying "He must be a pansy", he's not he's affectionate, but just the other week when I did this he just said "Do what you want" and didn't care, at all. I've done this alot and he's begun not to care that I do this anymore because I think he realizes I'm not actually going to follow through with it, but someday I will. I don't want to break up with him, but I get in this tunnel-vison mode where the only way out is out of the relationship. Any advice on why I do this and how to stop.
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i think yer having mixed emotions. stuff like that makes the relationship stronger. just try not to get mad over unescessary stuff like that.
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ok so i here people saying that they have like hooked up with their bf or gf..but does that mean that tey have had sex?? or kissing or what, because i was answering another question and in it is said that the two people wherent dating but have hooked up....and then they said they were virgins....so wats it mean? (link)
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"hooked up" in other words means chillin or hanging out. doesnt nesscessary mean they havin sex.
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i'm only 13 and i already weigh 145 pounds.. that's more than my 16 year old brother! anyway, i was just wondering if there was any way to lose as much weight as possible in the least amount of time without exercising excessively or starving myself? oh, and on my face, i was bushyish eyebrows, and although i think i'm... alright looking, the eyebrows kind of kill it. any way to fix that without plucking or waxing? thankz, !Jacy! (link)
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do push-ups, jumping jacks, etc. before u go to bed at night. eat healthy foods and there is no other way to shape yer eye-brows but waxing them and plucking them. and it doesn't hurt as bad as u think it does. just go for it and get yer eye-brows waxed!!!!
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I was having a semi-asthma attack on the phone with my boyfriend, and if you've ever had an asthma attack you aren't able to talk without hurting yourself. My boyfriend was asking over and over if I could breathe, well obviously not? I wouldn't answer because it hurt for me to talk and I finally answered with "No!" Then he takes it all defensivly and was like "Sorry! I was just trying to help, but you keep shutting me out." I wasn't shutting him out was I? I was just trying to be able to breathe... Any Advice? (link)
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Just tell him that u were having a asthma attack and that was the reason u couldnt talk.
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i have a friend and she always lies to me. i tried ignoring her but she just puts me on a guilt trip and i end up being friends with her again. all of her friends talk about her behind her back because she is like... socialy chalanged. all of my other friends who dont pretend to be her friend hate her and they rnt shy about showing it. ive for the most part exepted my friend's lieing problum but i still cant believe annything she sas. can someone help me? thanx and i will rate 5s for annyone who is not jokeing or being sarcastic (link)
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you should talk to her about it and tell her to be more truthful so that way people/you will trust her
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I just got my period (i've had it for 2 years) and i noticed that in my pad the blood was dark black instead of red/maroon like it usually is. What does this mean??? its dark dark black. Am i dehydrated or sumthing? (link)
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no, thats normal when that happens.. it may look like that when u first get it but when the days go on it'll get its color. then when it goes away it turns brown again.
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Ok, as u jus read, i really hate my mom. I cant stand her! 1st of all, i was i guess u can say an accident. Which makes the situation a hell of a lot worse. But newayz, i had a stress fracture in my foot. I have to wear one of those stupid walking boots 4 2 weeks. 2morrow is homecoming and i get to be in the parade and everything! Its 2 weeks next wednesday and i really dont want to wear it for homecoming, its JUST ONE DAY!!! It doesnt even hurt, everytime i hurt myself or decide if i want to go to the doctor, she always says, only u no how it feels. I put that back in her face and said i only know how bad it hurts and it doesnt. It hasnt been hurting me since monday (and thats they truth). I really dont wanna wear this stupid thing for homecoming and she said next time i piss her off, shes gonna tell me I cant go. I DONT WANNA LIVE HERE BECUASE I HATE HER THAT MUCH!!! I seriously need some help be4 one day i run away and dont come back because i have already came close 2 it! (link)
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you should wear it! i know i would.. i mean come on if u have a fractured foot u have a fractured foot! dont worry about what other ppl say er think about you...
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