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Parents vs. Fiancee
OK... I have been with this guy for a while, we have been together for a year, and we are both head over heels in love with each other. Now, he moved here 2 years ago trying to get away from his past...because he wanted to change himself, make himself better and he definitly has. But my parents dont like the fact that he is half black and hate his past. I think they will kick me out of the house if they find out we are talking again. But I love him... What do I do? I dont want to lose the best thing thats ever happened to me... I just turned 18, and I am off to college in a few months, but my parents say they will have someone follow me.
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You should do the only thing you can do.......follow your heart. it has to be a difficult situation but i think you need to talk to your parents and explain how you feel. tell them exactly waht you wrote.......... that you love him and he is the best thing thats ever happened to you and that he is a better person now. say that you 18 and its your decsision and if they dont like it then they are only pushing you away.
at the end of the day i think that if you really love the guy then you should trust you heart and be with him. and even if it is a mistake its your mistake to make, not your parents.
Hopit it helped!
good luck!
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You may be older than me and a know a lot more but if theres one thing i do know.. its that NOTHING can keep you from the ones you love so jsut try to explain to your parents how u feel about him and hopefully theyll understand! Otherwise.. just FOLLOW YOUR HEART! Good Luck!
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It shouldn't matter what your parents think. follow your heart. if you love him be with him! you are 18 years old now! u can do whatever you want! you are grown! yer legal! u should let yer parents be notified of that. let them know yer not a baby nemore.
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Follow your heart. Your parents have no right to tell you who you can love. And go to the police. They can't threaten to stalk you, that simply isn't right.
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