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Pls help me help myself with my issues


Question Posted Thursday March 31 2005, 9:25 pm

hi, it's very weird...I think I'm happy now. It's been a week that I think my life miraculously became better. My relationships with my friends and family improved..But my dreams are the same: sad, dark, disturbing. With common themes like: mean men, men who treat me like only a sex object or have lust for me, rejection and abandonment, not being good enough, and death or running away....I've been having bad dreams since I was a child (5 yrs old?) and lately, 18-20 yrs old the dreams became more clear, vivid and the frequency of bad dreams increased.

I've been reading self-help since I was 16, and now I'm already 20, and it helped a lot, but I think it is not enough to solve my "issues" which clearly manifests in my dreams?

So, what do you think should I do to resolve my issues? what makes it hard is they are all in my "unconscious" mind so its hard to uncover them in the first place..or, maybe I haven't read the "right" book yet, if that's the case, what book should I read?


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xoXCoNfUdLeDXox answered Monday April 4 2005, 8:30 pm:
hey i think you should go to a theripist or a councelor to talk about these dreams your having. Because my friend read something online that when you have dreams like that it has to relate to something in your life or something around you. You should pay close attention you never know it might mean something important! But then again it might be nothing. Well i hope i helped at least a little bit!

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xOBaBytiggerr answered Saturday April 2 2005, 11:40 pm:
you shouldnt read books caus that does no good. you should go seek medical help and see what they can do for you.


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karenR answered Thursday March 31 2005, 11:36 pm:
Maybe you should go see a therapist.You can't control what you dream, but if you read about the subject a lot maybe you aren't helping it.It would be like dwelling on it constantly, know what I mean? I'm not trying to be an ass or anything, just wondering out load.See a therapist, so you can figure out why you're having them. Must be something buried in there deep.

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achras answered Thursday March 31 2005, 9:34 pm:
you don't need a book you need to talk to a friend or family member about it. that is a very big problem. maybe you need to find a man that treats you like you deserve to be treated.

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