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he's so annoying!


Question Posted Sunday February 27 2005, 7:37 pm

ok well there's this guy and he likes me and 3 of my other friends and he's obsessed w/ me and i don't mean to sound conceited but its so annoying and all he talks to me about is how hot i am and one of his favorite lines to say online is "you love me wut?" and he always does this and he's always like "i want you hardcore on the bathroom in the shower" and stuff like that and its really sickening and i want him to stop..but i mean he's one of my friends..and i hate when he does that..and he's just the most annoying person ever..and i'm sick of him saying that stuff..but i don't know how to say it..how should i tell him that he's so annoying and i want him to stop saying that kind of stuff to me..?

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CraziForRey619 answered Monday February 28 2005, 4:35 pm:
Tell him to stop saying that shit and if he keeps going, punch him. Besta Luck

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Lights_Fade_Out answered Monday February 28 2005, 11:27 am:
thats disgusting. even if he is your friend, i suggest that you do something about his way of speaking to you. HE IS TOTALLY DISRESPECTING YOU!!! if he liked you he wouldnt make you feel uncomfortable like this. tell him that. tell him that if he cared about you that he would respect you and what you want for yourself. if you DONT want to even be his friend, then really give it to him. just push him away if you need to, he shouldnt be like that.

hope this helped!!! good luck ;-D

dont let the LIGHTS FADE OUT

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Spike answered Sunday February 27 2005, 10:43 pm:
I would just tell him you dont feel that way about him, or just ask him to stop, and if he doesnt, then he might not truly be a freind----Spike

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br0kenPr0miiSes answered Sunday February 27 2005, 10:27 pm:
pshh the kid fucking wants you hoe

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poisonkissesox answered Sunday February 27 2005, 9:53 pm:
If you don't tell him now then one day he'll piss you off, you'll blow p, and you'll both hate each other. Way to become enemies right? I suggest asking him to stop.

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XXcrazy4evaXX answered Sunday February 27 2005, 9:28 pm:
Well, what you have to do is say to him, "I really don't like you more then friends and I hope we can still be friends but nothing more. I am sorry but I really don't like you and I hope you can understand that, so please stop obsessing with me." That will work and if it doesn't tell me and we'll work something out that'll I'll help. I know it may sound mean and that you'll feel bad but you have to and it'll be for the best! Hope I helped!~Chrissie

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Karen answered Sunday February 27 2005, 8:26 pm:
You definitely need to talk to him and when he does this again, tell him that you want him to stop because you aren't comfortable with this. If he is your friend, he should understand and will stop. If he still does it, once you tell him to stop, tell him that you aren't going to be friends with him anymore and that you aren't going to talk to him until he stops. Explain how this annoys you and how it's awkward. If none of these options work, just ignore him and when he asks why you are, then tell him how you feel and that he is annoying and that you want him to stop saying things to you that are "sexual" in a way.
-Karen

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piinkbabii781xx answered Sunday February 27 2005, 8:23 pm:
Just say to him to shut up thats annoying n when he says that stuff act serious dont smile and dont listen to him

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x_next_2_you_x0 answered Sunday February 27 2005, 8:21 pm:
you definitly need to tell him to step off and stop saying all that stuff to you because thats like sexual harrasment and if it gets annoying to you then you should tell him straight up that you dont feel comfortable with him saying all that stuff to you...and if you still want him to be your friend tell him in the nicest possible way that you want him to stop...hope i could be of some help.... <33 ~danni

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icey0990 answered Sunday February 27 2005, 8:19 pm:
Sometimes you need to lay it on thick. This is one of those times. If you dont feel right yelling at him to stop in person..then on AIM type in caps that you want him to stop! Tell him uou still want to be friends but he HAS TO stop harassing you. Get it in his head that you and him arent gonna happen..and if it doesnt stop you'll have no choice but to report him. It might make him feel a little uncomfortable but o well because he made you really feel uncomfortable with those remarks! If he doesnt stop right away you need to report him because a friend doesnt keep doing that when you say stop it.
-melissa-

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xcuriousx0 answered Sunday February 27 2005, 8:19 pm:
i hate it when guys do that...they think they can say anything to you and get away with it...next time he says somethin be liek...'no offense but i dont liek you sayin stuff like that to me it creaps me out..." be totally honest with him...be liek "im your friend and everythin but thats just weird..." it may sound like really brutal but if you want him to stop...u might have no other choices...good luck...keep in touch...mucho love ~kayla

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Erinn_the_bamf answered Sunday February 27 2005, 8:17 pm:
Next time he does it tell him it makes you feel uncomfortable. If he is the jerk he sounds like he'll do it again. When he does it again tell him you were serious. If this makes him feel uncomfortabel tell him this strongly. Explain how this is very awkward. Tell him whatever you need to make him stop. I hope I helped! &hearts; good luck

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xoxlilshortyxox answered Sunday February 27 2005, 8:15 pm:
Block him on instant messanger and tell him to stop bothering you. Also say you'll report him to the police for sexaul harrassment.

x0x bree!

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