i went out with this one guy at the beginning of the year and we went out for 3 weeks and then i dumped him and then he still liked me after that so he gave me a necklace for my birthday and then i went out w/ him again because i liked him again and then i dumped him again after 2 weeks and now like 3 months later i just realized that i still like him and the reason i dumped him before is because we talked more and everything wayy more when we were friends but i really like him again and now i'm like totally sad that he's going to be going out w/ a girl that's 2 years older than him and me and him are the same age..but idk how to tell him that i really like him again..because he keeps telling me that he never got over me and he still likes me a lot but now he's gonna go out w/ another girl..what should i say to him because i don't wanna go out w/ him again because i don't wanna risk the dumping situation again but i wanna be that friends w/ benefits type thing..how can i tell him that??
br0kenPr0miiSes answered Monday February 28 2005, 11:30 am: its weird how i had the same exact problem pretty much. only i didnt go out with him yet. you need to tell him because your only hurting yourself if you dont. the only people who lose are the people who dont try, so even if he says he doesnt like you, you still have a confidence boost. [ br0kenPr0miiSes's advice column | Ask br0kenPr0miiSes A Question ]
XXcrazy4evaXX answered Sunday February 27 2005, 9:21 pm: Well, Just come right and say I really love you and I know you might not trust me for all the other times you broke up with me but I really want you and I gaurentee that I won't make you sad again. Be honest with him and tell him the truth. Try and be more then the other girl he is with that he'll think you are better and brake up with the other girl. Hope I helped!~Chrissie [ XXcrazy4evaXX's advice column | Ask XXcrazy4evaXX A Question ]
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