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okay so was goin out wit this really cool guy and i loved to b with him we always had fun. well i just found out that he broke up with me a few days ago because he liked another gurl and he was waiting for her to like him back! and now i feel really used! and i was soo mad! i really wanna talk to him and tell him how i feel. and i wanna get over him soo bad! and i thought that i did! but then i looked in his profile and all and its all about this other gurl and how hes crazy about her! how can i get over this guy? and how can i talk to him about it w/o lookin desperate.. or looking like i want him back? (cuz i dont)
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hmm heres a thought, FUCK HIM!! IF U DONT WANT HIM BACK WHY TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT!
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Well, just right out tell him how you feel. And maybe tell his girlfriend what he did to you and tell her you can have him I am just warning you, and good luck. Just something nice, simple, and explaining your point. Tell him right to his face and tell him that is really wrong and you broke my heart and you are soo mean. And if he doesn't seem to care say I hope you won't do it again and bye and walk away. That will hopefully help you on getting over him. And if it doesn't just try and looking at some other guys that you know won't be like the other one. Hope I helped and I am always here!~Chrissie
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You really do need to talk to him and tell him how you feel about all of this. To talk to him without sounding desperate or wanting him back, just say "Hey, I really need to talk to you about something. When you dumped me, I felt that I was used and I was and you shouldn't have done that to me because it makes me mad that you waited to dump me, once this girl liked you." Say something like that and then tell him how you feel. To get over this guy, you need to just let go of your feelings for him and just start talking to other guys and move on. You will get over him but it will take time.
-Karen
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Deffinitly talk to him about it. He should not have done that and should have cared about your feelings even if you two broke up. Just tell him that its lame that he would do that and that you can find someone better then him.
~Brina~
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to get over this guy you should try and move on to other guy even though it may be difficult if you still like him...talk to him like you would normally do with one of your friends pretend act like you dont need him and that you dont want him back because im sure that you can do much better...you dont deserve to be treated like he treated you, guys shouldnt just think that they can do that kinda stuff...hope i helped... <33
~danni
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Hey i know exactly what you mean, im almost in the same situation (almost)
well you have to talk to him, and say that it realli hurt when he went out with you, but then dumped you for another gurl and that he had hopes for another gurl while he was with you. and tell him that u liked him and all but since hes done all this to you than its over and say that u never thought he would do something like that.
but now you can try to move on b/c im sure there is another guy who will love you and is waiting for you.
good luck and let me know how it goes ok?
xoxo amore
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he sounds like an ass. think about it. he couldnt help being sigle, and he wanted her jealous. u should slap him then get over it. a guy like that, who wnts him. or if u like hanging w/him, be friends
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