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Lost and confused!
Please read! This is the most confusing and hurtful thing that happened to me!
I have a boyfriend and I really love him. Even though I still am going out with him I've liked this guy soooo much this whole year! This guy knew that I liked him and he liked me to. Like 2 weeks ago him and his girlfriend broke up. While they were going out he was telling me that he really does like me and that he wants to go out with me. Well, he asked me out but I was still going out with my boyfriend. This weekend we didnt talk much. When I did he told me he wasnt over his ex girlfriend! I dont know what to do! Im heart broken! He told me he liked me and now I`m not in the picture anymore. He forgot about me and moved on! Please help! What did I do to change his mind that quick. I cant talk to him about this and I wont so please dont tell me to! Help! Im so confused and hurt.
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You didn't do anything. He told you he isn't over his old girlfriend and that is the truth of it.Not anything you did.If you really love current boyfriend then forget this guy.
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O.k. This guy iz obviously a jerk if he thinks that of you. I think you just need to carry on in your life. There's someone out there just for you, and he's obviously to much of a jerk to be the one for you.if you broke up with you b/f then see if you can get back together w/ him but if you didnt then you dont really have too much of a problem.
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This probably isnt what you want to hear but im going to be honest. You have a boyfriend right? You like another guy? I'm not saying it's abnormal, plenty of people break up because of another guy/girl. I think you've been the victum of a crush. He did like you but he's moved on. IT will be the best for you if you move on too. You won't think so now, but you will. The reason he moved on is because he told you he loved/liked you and you didn't respond. Well, you didn't respond the way he wanted to you.Who knows? you may get another chance in this soap opera that is junior/ highschool. When it comes, if you still feel the same way.... go for it. sorry I can't help much....it is a hard predicament. Hope everything works out.
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OKay, well he was probaly embarrssed when he broke up with his girl friend for you and then you didn't brake up with yours for him and then you couldn't go with him because you did have a boyfriend already. He is trying to get you jealous so you will brake up with your b/f to go with him and that is what he is shooting for. It happens all the time. Hope I helped >3~Chrissie
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if you loved your boyfriend like you say you do, you wouldnt be confused over someone else.
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You had a boyfriend.
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anonymous -
I'm not sure how old you guys are, but if you're young (pre-teens to middle teens) most likely the guy is struggling to find out what he wants. Cuz when you choose to break up with somebody, usually you get to thinking and that thinking leads to regret. I don't think that you did anything wrong, it's just that the guy had a change in heart about how he felt about the other girl. He might still like you, but his feelings for the other girl might overpower the feelings for you.
You don't have to talk to him about it. My best suggestion is to move on. It's a big world and life is too short to wallow in the sadness over this guy! You should be grateful too cuz if he did end up getting together with you, seeing that he can't make up his mind very well, he might dump you down the line for someone else as well.
Feel better girl an d hope this helps!
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give it a week and see what he does. if he cares for you he will talk to you.
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