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breaking up
Im not sure if i should break up with my boyfriend or not. Lately things havent been going good for us. We been going out 3 months by the way. I just got back from a trip and he only texted me twice while I was gone & i just called him to see if he wanted to go somewhere and he didnt barely talk at all, he didnt ask how my trip went, or that he missed me or anything. Right after I asked him, he said no & said bye. I dunno how I should break up with him though, I cant do it in person cuz we have spring break and I cant see him all week for different reasons and I sure dont want to call him again... I dunno please help me.
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Sound like he's bothered by something.I'd try to find out what, if you want to keep him.Maybe he was just in a bad mood when you called him or just had a fight with his parents or something.
I would try calling him one more time and see how it goes before you break up with him.
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Maybe you can get a friend to do it. But the best way is it to be on the fone, all you need to say is i dont think this is going to work out and i JUST want to be friends. Say you still like him and you want to be friends *even if it is a lie* Be sympathetic, no one likes to be dumped. Hope this helps! xoxo BLONDE911
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before you think of breaking up with him, you should talk to him in person whenever you can. it helps a lot to look the person in the eye and see if they really mean what they say. on the phone, anyone can say anything and not mean it. and plus on the phone really sucks. it kinda seemes like you don't care and that you just want to be rid of him. like i said before, just talk to him at the first chance you get, then think about what you should do.
i hope i helped.
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cal him and dump his ass you deserve better then that he is just a prick and dont have any feelings
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if i was you, i would break up with him, but whatever you do, dont break up over text messenging! lol. i broke up with someone over texting before nad i didnt get to see how his facial expression was or anyhting adn i didnt get to hear his voice, and we havent talked since and its been like 6 months! lol. so i think you should call him and first talk to hi madn ask him what is up with him, and later on in the conversation if he still acts like that, then break up with him! hope i helped.
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Don't break up with him right away. First call him to see what's up. You have to call. Ask him if somethings different. If he says nothing and still acts this way dump him. Any othe explaintion you will be able to understand. I hope I hepled! ♥ good luck
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it sounds like he wants to break up with you... he's not worth it at all!!... i think you should call him and break up with him... that is probably your only solution unless you want to wait longer... maybe you can stop by his house or something... just to talk things over and if it doesn't get anywhere then break things off
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Well if I were you I should would! That's mean of him to say that he didn't miss you! But I mean if you feel like you two can hang in there for another week with pretty much no way of communicating, then try to wait it out and see what happens. But I would break up with him for soring break and then when school comes around I would see if he missed you or anything. Good luck. But from what I've learned, when a guy stops calling, then pretty soon he's going to officially call it off. But maybe it'll be different for you!
♥ Always,
Maria
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You've been going out for three months, that's barely a relationship. He's probably just having trouble at home. You guys have barely begun, give it more time before you decide to move on.
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i think you should cuz you guyys obviously need a break. you should talk to him in person and see what is going on. dont understand why he would do that if hes going out with you. just do what i said. =) umm tell me how it goes!
~nat~
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Ask him whats going on before you break up with him. You never know why he is acting like this. If he doesnt talk to you or anything maybe you could tell one of your friends to break up with him for you or talk to him online. If not just call him and tell him! x0
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