I have had a MAJOR crush on this guy for like 6 YEARS!!!!!!!!! I thought I was over him, so I got a b/f, and now I'm seeing the other guy more, and I feel like it's not fair to my boyfriend that I like someone else. The big problem is that my b/f and I are really close, and I feel that if I break up with my b/f for the other guy, I wouldn't have a chance with him. What do I do? I'm a 15/f
Cux answered Monday June 22 2009, 8:58 pm: You need to talk to your boyfriend. You're right; it isn't fair that you like someone else while you're dating, no matter how close you are or aren't.
Talk to him, and maybe he can help you out. If you don't communicate, your relationship will fail no matter how close you are.
I wouldn't break up with your boyfriend just to date the other boy, but if you going to like both at the same time, it isn't fair to date either of them.
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