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HELP !!!!!!!!!
My boyfriend is a punk and i am like a cheerleader and im like a prep and stuff i dont know if i shold break up with him because later on in life i mean we might not work because he is a punk and he told me to choose him or cheerleading i am half hawaiian so like i have been doing hceerleading since i was 5 and surfing since i was 2
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well sit down and think long and hard what u like more and think of the good and the bad about both but remember cheerleadings a sport but ur bf is a person
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That's not right, for him to make you choose between him and cheerleading. Talk to him. Tell him you're not going to choose, and that you can balance a love life and cheerleading. He needs to know that you won't blow him off for cheerleading, I think.
If he's gonna keep making you choose things, then you really might not work. Tell him that. He has no right to try to control your life like that. That's like my boyfriend telling me to choose singing or him. Singing is my life, and I couldn't just stop singing, but I love him with all my heart. It's just not right, and he needs to realize that. I hope I helped!
-Siren =)
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If he is setting you the ultimatum to change or break up with him , then break up with him! - how dare he, be your self and if he doesn't like it fuck him.
Derfel
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Omg you need to get out! A guy that makes you choice something you love and have been doing your whole life or him... thats just dicked!! Seriously no guy should controll you like that! Find someone else! Unless he decides to change then stay with him but dont make the wrong decision of picking up over cheerleading then missing out on the fun!! Good luck!
-holly-
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ok im sure that later on in life you will find someone who you will have alot more in common with. if it was me i would just dump him now because obviously if hes saying to choose cheerleading or him, he doesn't apprieciate what you love to do and is trying to change you. good luck!
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If he is pushing you to choose between him and something you love, forget him. It is not bad to date someone different from you, but he should care for you just the way you are no matter what. Just because he is different now, doesn't mean you won't like each other later. It also doesn't mean you will. Forever is a long time to be hooked up with someone who doesn't care what you like.
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If a guy can't except you for who you are and what you do, then hes not right for you.. no guy should make you give up something you love.. cuz if they really cared about you.. they would know how important it was to you. But don't break up with him cuz hes punk and ur a prep b/c thats just as bad as making you pick him or cheerleading.
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If you really love cheerleading you should break up with him. No offence but he sounds kind of controlling of your intrests. If you really love him and cheerleading talk to him and tell him the you don't want to lose either of those things. Hope it works out!-Elektra
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ok if he really cared about you he wouldnt make you choose but i guess if you want to choose choose cheerleading..youll get more out of that then some boy..they are worthless until its true love..and trust me i dont think this is true love if hes making you choose b/t your sport and your b/f
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well i think its cool that you went for a totally different guy but if hes making you choose maybe hes not the right one you should be with--maybe its best you do break up with him!
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Hey Sweetie!! The first thing that caught my attention was when you typed that he is making you choose between him and cheerleading. And that definitely puts you in such an awkward place right now, deciding which one you want better. But to me that is just not right. There should never be a time when your boyfriend makes you give up something just to be with him.
In this case you should talk to him about that. You love him, and you love your cheerleading and surfing..it's a part of who you are and it is something you enjoy. You wouldn't say to your boyfriend which one is it, your music..or me? Hunnie if you love something...go for it. Never give up on something you love because someone thinks differently. This is YOUR life and you do what you want to do. If he loves you and wanted to be with you enough he should understand this.
So you are a cheerleader/prep and he is a punk? How long have you been dating him? In my opinion if he resepcts what you told him about how you love your cheerleading and surfing and he comes to realize that he shouldn't let you choose I would give it a chance. Sometimes it's unbelieveable how differences between you and other people make you love the person because of the different things you do. And also, you'll try and learn new things. It's kind of like me and my boyfriend. We have our differences but we just learn from them. And it is so much fun!!! One night we'll go to a concert or i'll preform on stage with him because he is in a band and then the next night we will go to the beach and just party. I hope you guys can come up with something that will work out. All the best of luck to you! Love you! -Mandee
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Choose him or cheerleading??? haha, easy choice! CHEERLEADING!! Relationships are about making each other's life better. Now why on earth would he make you choose him or cheerleading???? He seems VERY immature!! That's just the stupidest thing I've ever heard. Relationships should be 50/50, and while it's very important that the two of you spend time together, you MUST have your own separate lives. I suggest you hang on to cheerleading. He obviously can't care too much for you if he making you choose between him and a passion of yours. The right guy will respect you for who you are; and he obviously doesn't do that. Goodluck, I wish you the very best! =D
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I think he needs to understand that you are who you are. Who cares if you've been a cheerleader..or surfed. You are who you are. But you also have to understand who he is too. Make him chose between a skateboard and you. Ya know, if he wants to be like that, then give it back to him. It might now work out, but just because of your hobbies...that really shouldn't stand in the way of ya'lls relationship! Good luck! :)
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Well tell him you can't choose between to loves thats like making him choose between u and punk.. its unable to work you shouldnt go out with a guy that would make you change-trix
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im a prep and all ym best friends are punks so i disagree wiht whoever said tha tpunks dont usually talk to preps cuz that bullshyt... however.... if he is makign you choose then its him that needs to go because he can't tell you that its him or nothing... he isnt that great if he is making you choose anywyas... i wouldnt choose just yet but if he brings it up again let him knwo that if he makes you choose then eh will eb the oen to go...
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Well if he's gonna make you choose him over something you love or he's gone, then he isnt the one for you, try to find someone else im sure you could do better
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Okay, I dress in like Abercrombie and Fitch and all those stores, and I hang out with punks, all my guy friends are in punk bands. And I go to shows and everything, so don't let anyone tell you differently. It doesn't matter how your boyfriend dresses or how you dress or the kind of sport you do, you like him for him and he likes you for you. Don't change because someone doesn't like what you do or anything. If you like cheerleading, surfing, and dressing the way you dress, then dress like that. Be yourself, not what someone wants you to be. You like what you do then do that. If you like your boyfriend a lot then stay with him. But, if he's trying to change you then either talk to him about that or break up with him. But, I would first talk to him and say "You dress like that and I dress like this and I do cheerleading and I like it, just how I like you, if you dont like that, then maybe we shouldn't go out" "But I just want to know what's wrong with me doing cheerleading?" Just ask him questions like that and just ask him whatever you want to know =D Hope this helps!!
xoxo Kourtney
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hi, this is my opinion so u don't hafta take it seriously, im just tellin ya wut i would do
well 1st of all, if my boyfriend made me choose between him and sum1 or sumthin else, just like a friend i'd lose him, but it sounds like u really like him, tell him ur not gunna choose and if he wants u to, then it won't be him, u don't hafta give up thinkgs u love, i bet there are lots of guys that would love to date you!!!!
hope this helps, and if it doesn't well then u still have lots of answers to choose from!!
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Omg i was in this situation lol im hawaiian too lol Dump him you shouldn't have to choose thats what makes you you and if he doesn't like you for who you are he doesn't deserve you! x0x0 Kay
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u no wat i am a punk also and usually punks dont really talk let alone hang out with preps. so this guy must really really like u. i mean but tell him that u love cheerleading and u really dont want to quit. if he still wants u too then maybe it is time to break up. but if he really cares for u then he shouldnt care.
*good luck*
~katie~
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I think that if you're happy with him then yall should stay together,I mean no one knows what the future will hold. But if your not really satisfied then you should break up with him. Remember there are other guys out there,who could in return be better than your current boyfriend! Well good luck!
XOXOXOXO SHayla!
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hi, well u just have to choose...but b/f comes n go...if u feel he's da rite one then...i dunno but if he loves u he will respect wut u do...n how u are...so dump his ass :) xoxo effy
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If he can't accept who you are, i think you should break up with him. I mean, think about who you are...think about who he is...You've been doing cheerleading since you were five. That's who you are. If you don't want to change, and your boyfriend can't accept that, than break up with him. He's a waste of your time!
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