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just a crush?
i'm 14/f and i've been head-over-heels for one of my good friends for about a month and a half. i told him how i felt a little less than a month ago and he gave me the ol' "i'd like us to be friends" yeah, of course that didnt make me feel oh-so-fabulous. i knew he didn't feel for me the way i feel about him. but i guess i didn't actually wanna hear it. well anyway, lately, i've been really lonely. not meaning friends. i know that my friends love me and they're here for me. but i miss that hand to hold. i miss being somebody's somebody. what should i do? is there any way to get him to consider looking at me in a different way besides friends? i'll rate you quick. thanks...
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Gurl, i have the same problem! I changed my look... my style and he still won't fall for meh.. You culd try that.. but i doubt it'll work.. if he doesn't like you now.. he prolly won't like u for a while.. juss pray that 1 day he'll open his eyes and see ur tru buety.. and then he'll relized wut a mistake he made..
I.M me on HugzXKizzes1117.. i know wut ur goin thro... type meh we'll talk!
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Candi
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There's no way to "get" him to like you, really. He doesn't feel a romantic attraction to you, but it's possible that it could develop. I can totally understand the wanting to be with someone thing. I have a friend going through the same thing right now. All you can do is hang out with him - maybe he'll give the romantic stuff a chance. You never know - be optimistic!
-Siren =)
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i've just recently gone though the same thing. i tried to just accept it to be friends but i really liked him. so i just tryed very hard to be looked at in a diffrent way..but i wasn't being myself. JUST ALWAYS BE YOURSELF!! any guy will love you for that. maybe you should just move on from him. hes to blind to see what he could have.
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Oh I know how you feel, and I know how hard it is. You just have to be yourself around him. Don`t change yourself just to get him too like you the way you like him. He`ll come around. I hope it all works out for you.
Megan.
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