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my girlfriend is amazing
my girlfriend is amazing. i am truely honestly blessed to be with her, she is so perfect. the problem is sometimes we get in arguements over really stupid stupid shit, and when we do i feel so extremely guilty and torn up because she is so nice and sweet, she never deserves to be hurt. i know all relationships have things that need to be overcome, but i just cant take it when i hurt this girl. she is so sweet and great to be with, and she would never hurt anyone. how do i make myself feel less guilty about it?
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I know this may sound corny, but just try avoiding fighting over stupid things. It sounds like you guys have a wonderful relationship and yu should consider yourself lucky.
-obabisocute
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She puts on this act to get you to feel extremely guilty if you feel like disagreeing with her. And it works. If you know you're right,then defend yourself. When you're wrong,then admit it and bury it. Girls will do underhanded shit like that. You'd be suprised how mean the sweet looking girls are.
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Well every couple argues once in awhile, even about the stupid stuff! So don't worry! But just appoligize if it was your fault. Maybe if you do something wrong show up at her house with a rose or something sweet, girls LOVE the romantic stuff. Or maybe just leave a rose on her porch if it's late and put her name on it. It will make you feel alot better to know that you did something for her, or maybe if you aren't fighting, do the romantic stuff anyways. We absolutely LOVE it! Just tell her how sweet she is and how much she means to you.. She'll appriciate it. And it also shows that you pay attention to her, but don't go over board with the sweet stuff you dont want to seem liek youre stalking her, just do it once in awhile, so you don't scare her off! I hope I helped you out, let me know what happens! Best wishes for you and your girlfriend!
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well u can't help feeling guilty but ur prolly right if she is that great then u prolly shouldn't hurt her but it sounds to me like u guys are those type of poeple that start fights with eachother just for the make up cause i am sure u guys are alot closer and really like each other after u make up and if thats the case then u will jsut have to live with it or learn to keep ur mouth shut when she is startin shit or when ur about to
good luck
Gabe
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Simply, talk to her. Tell you are feeling guilty. She will probably feel very greatful that she has a guy who loves her very much and cares so much about her feelings.
megan.
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acctually your probably one of the lucky few that is fortuante enough to fight over little stuff and you really shuoldnt feel guilty at all but if you really do just tell her your sorry and you were just kind of mad and she will understand and give her a big hug or kiss and im msure she will forget all about it
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If you can fight about stupid shit and you haven't broken up, you guys have a strong relationship. Congratulations. ^_^
As for feeling less guilty about arguing, you just have to know that arguments are NORMAL and that you two have a strong relationship. There has to be a reason you argue, right? Let there be a reason. It may not be as stupid as you think it is. *Shrug*
You sound like a sweetheart. Don't lose the guilt totally. It'll help you out in the long run. =P
Hope I helped a bit!
-Siren =)
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Tell her how you feel.. that you feel guilty.. maybe that'll help! =)
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