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I have lots of best friends. But three that are really close. Two of them are guys. One is Steve and I've complained about him before. But I really like him and he's going out with my other really close best friend, Haley. My other best friend, that's a guy, Jeff just told me he liked me on New Year's Eve. He said his Goal for 2006 was to try to win me over from Steve. I LOVE STEVE SOOO MUCH! But how can I let everyone know how I feel with out losing any of my friends?
Okay so here are my main questions:
1. How to tell Steve that I really like him
2. How to tell Haley that I'm like in love with Steve
3. How to let Jeff know that I'd rather just be friends
Thanks a lot!
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1. just ask him like on an outing for fun not like a date but like a hang out with just you and him and start talkin bout how jeff said that his goal was to win you over and just say somethin like that you dont want to be with jeff you would rather be with him!
2. im sorry i cant help you with that one! sorry
3. just tell him that you have known him so long that you just want to be friends! ive had to do that to and thats what i did and we are still friends today!
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just do #3. dont worry about telling steve u love him. and haley doesnt need to know either. dont take this personally.. but obviously steve doesnt like you. hes going out with haley.
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first of all .. if steve's happy with who hes with .. don't you want him to be happy? and telling him taht you like him might make things awkward between you guys .. just tell jeff that you don't think of him as anymore than a friend .. even though he might be a little mad .. he should realize taht you're friendship is more important ..
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Ok you're in a tricky situation here...
First off with Jeff, Just tell him that you are only intrested in being friends. And tell him soon, because the longer you wait the harder it will be for him to deal with
You really don't have to tell Haley or steve how you feel. It could cause a major rift in your friendship. You could just wait until they break up and then ask Haley if it would be ok for you to date Steve. But if you are going to tell them I would talk to Haley First so she doesn't end up hearing from steve himself. Explain to her that you would never try to break her and Steve up but that you like him. She is probably going to be upset so choose your words carefully. Explain the same thing to Steve. He might be upset, but probably not as much as Haley will be
Hope this Helped
Love
Kate
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Tell Jeff that you dont like him...and you would rather be friends
You can tell Steve in a private place and tell him how you really feel about him..
Haley might get mad at you but she will get over it...and tell her how you feel to..
Hope this helped!<3
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