IM GAY!
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Age: 13
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Member Since: December 31, 2005
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Last Update: January 1, 2006
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there is this guy in 9th grade that i think is really hott..and im only in the 7th. and we kno each other..and talk and stuff..but just not that well, and he knos i think he is hott..but, he said wen im in 9th grade he'll think about goin out wit me. which is okay..that doesnt bother me..but im really starting to like him and i have a b/f..and my b/f always asks me if i like anyone else, and we are truthful to each other so i tell him i like the 9th grader..and hes like wat? hes barley in high school..so he acts weird about it or w/e wen i tell him..and i fell like i can only tell the 9th grader stuff..and not any of my friends..because they might take it weird..so..idk..im just confused..is this normal or w/e??- -sry it sounds so retarted..i rate..please help! (link)
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hi...well hes probably to old for you because when ur in 9th grade he will be in 11th...so it probably wont work out..and he sees you as a friend probly because your so young..but maybe you could spend more time with your bf to get your mind off the 9th grader since your starting to really like him...
Hope this helps!
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what does nigger mean? (link)
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well i guess you could say you shouldnt use that word..and some people think its a bad word..lol...but it means a black person...
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I have a long distance relationship with my bf. He had to move away for a job in an oil rig camp. He can't email me because his internet hasnt been connected yet. So the only way we can contact each other is by phone.
Well since he moved 2 months ago he hasn't phoned me once. I phoned him on Xmas day(I just happened to catch him on his break) and he was being pleasant and said he'd phone me on New Years Eve. I never got a call. I know he works crazy hours and probably can't get a hold of me. I also work but only part time.
He told me also to never phone him before 6. He has a cell phone.
I'm getting really sick of this whole long distance thing. I also think he should be phoning me more than say, once every 2 months.
Should I cut this dead and try to find a local boy? And if he really loved me wouldnt he be contacting me more? (link)
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He is probably really busy with work..but thats not an excuse...you can confront him and talk to him about it....and after a while if things don't work out you can find a boyfriend that lives closer that you can see more often..
Hope this helps!
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Okay, I have a friend, and like we are like brother and sister. But ppl keep telling me that he likes me and stuff, and i like sit on his lap and kiss him and crap, but i dont like him like that. What should I do to let him know that i'm sorry that i lead him on and stuff, but i don't want to be a couple? (link)
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Tell him your sorry..and don't lead him on anymore because in the end you might hurt him alot...but you can like hug him and stuff but just tell him your srry and don't kiss him and stuff like that anymore..
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I'm always tired. Even when I get 8+ hours of sleep. What's wrong with me?
It's hard to do something when all day I feel like I'm going to pass out on my desk. (link)
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Maybe try to drink more water...Drink that Rock Star energy drink(they make you go crazy)..lol.....eat more fruits and maybe you should see a doctor because you might have Mono..
Hope that helps!
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so ive been thinking... how do you know when ure friends are actually there i mean really there... I use to be hecka good friends with this girl well call her Mary well we were best friends then mary got mad and stopped talking to me for like 3 months i mean it was like forever. she got mad and just started ignoring me yea i know stupid(it was so stupid she doesnt even know why she was mad!) anyways now were friends again and were starting to be close again but i dunno if i still trust her... i mean it takes alot for someone to make me super sad and then want to be friends again. I was telling someone else about it and i told him that i went a long time not trusting her and he told me since they just meant that he thought she was super fake! he told me that hes the type of person that remembers stuff and wont forget if someone got mad at him and stopped talking but it keeps me thinking is she really there for me or is she just a bunch of lies that sits there acting like my friend. I mean u can only give someone so much in life. Anways i know you will probbaly not be able to help me. But i just want to know do you think she seems fake just by the way i described her. also she did the same thing to my friend before me she got mad at her and stopped talking to her then when she was mad at me she became friends with her again. I dunno its hard to explain.. ive just been thinking maybe i shouldn't put that much trust in her anymore and see what happens... i dont think i can trust her as much as i use to what do you think???? well sorry this is so long! i know its like an essay! (link)
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Well you can try to be friends with her..and it seems to me from what you have said that she is fake...bc she got mad at your friend and then she was friends with her then she got mad at you..so it seems she going on and off..srry if this is confusing..!
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Okay so I went to this party at a hotel, and there were supposed to be parents there, but when I showed up, it was only a bunch of friends, withs lots of alcohol and stuff... So I got drunk and stuff, and it ended up the guy I was in love with was there. But he had a girlfriend, and his girlfriend happened to be my best friend, but me and her were fighting at the time. So I was sooo drunk that I wanted to make her as mad as possible, so I made out with her boyfriend and gave him a handjob. Now idk if she's gonna find out or w/e. I need help... should i tell her or let just let it go!!
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I think that you should tell her like when she is over at ur house or something...bc if she found out she might be even more mad that you didnt tell her..and tell her since you were in a fight at the time...you were just so mad and drunk you wanted to piss her off..(lol)...
Hope this helps
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OMG! Okay I'm the girl w/ the steve problem... well i just found out that at a party i went to... we were alll over eachother and it wasnt just me.. he was doing it too... and he's complaining to his friends that im all over him AGAIN but i wasnt i swear... and now i have nooo clue what to do.. should i talk to him.. PLEASE HELP... WILL RATE FIVES!! (link)
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You should talk to him about it if he was doing it to..because he was all over you to so he shouldnt be complaining about you...if he was doing it to..
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I have lots of best friends. But three that are really close. Two of them are guys. One is Steve and I've complained about him before. But I really like him and he's going out with my other really close best friend, Haley. My other best friend, that's a guy, Jeff just told me he liked me on New Year's Eve. He said his Goal for 2006 was to try to win me over from Steve. I LOVE STEVE SOOO MUCH! But how can I let everyone know how I feel with out losing any of my friends?
Okay so here are my main questions:
1. How to tell Steve that I really like him
2. How to tell Haley that I'm like in love with Steve
3. How to let Jeff know that I'd rather just be friends
Thanks a lot! (link)
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Tell Jeff that you dont like him...and you would rather be friends
You can tell Steve in a private place and tell him how you really feel about him..
Haley might get mad at you but she will get over it...and tell her how you feel to..
Hope this helped!
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I've known this guy, Steve, for like 10 years. And we've grown on eachother. I tried commiting suicide a while back, and when I was better, I found out he tried to commite suicide right after I did, because he couldn't go on in life with out me. So after the incident, we decided to date. I don't know what happened but we didn't last long. Now that we're over, he went out with my best friend, but he still leads me on. Like we went to a party together and we ended up making out and I gave him a handjob. But whatever. I can't get over him and I'm still in love with him, and he claims that he's still in love with me too. And when we talk about it he always says that he's really sorry. But I truly don't think he is because if he was, he'd break up with her. I know she's my best friend, but they've only known each other for what, 2 months. Me and him have known eachother for 10 fricken years! That's a long ass time. So should I tell him he needs to stop leading me on, or should I just keep doing things with him... I'm sooo confused! PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
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i think you should stop doing stuff with him because its your best friend thats dating him..and you wouldnt like it if she was doing stuff with your boyfriend..or you could confront him about and ask him if hes going to break up with her or tell him to stop leading you on...
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Hey I was just wondering well, you see...my boyfriend && i have been going out for 1 month or so and we are not as close as we could be. I'm crazy about him and as far as i know he's crazy about me. But I wanted to know if there was little random things maybe i could do to show him i love him, you know? Another problem is, he hasnt even kissed me yet but he always bothers my best friend and her boyfriend because they kiss everyday. I would sort of like to take a step forward because i like him alot but i dont want to be the first to kiss him. If you guys have any ways i could sort of hint at him that'd be soo great. Thanks in advance
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Sorry that was my friend that was at my house....i think you should lead him on and flirt with him and maybe when ur alone or at the movies you can ask him for a kiss...(my bf asked me that once)..
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I have bit of problem but then again since I'm asking a question I guess thats obvious.
15/F. (16 in a couple months)
There is this guy Marcus, who likes me and I guess I like him. Lately my feelings for him have diminished but anyways he has a girlfriend now but he still says he loves me and all that. (I don't understand guys who say they love you when they don't even know what it means)
At the beginning of December I had a dream that sort of disturbed me and didn't make sense but its become constant now. I have it almost every night.
basically I'm taking a walk and I run into Marcus making out with a girl and I'm shocked, hurt and angry at the same time but when I turn around someone is right there and puts their arms around me and reasures me everything is alright. I know this person is a guy because of his cologne. he's in this brown/tan trenchcoat and I finish crying he goes out and beats up Marcus. (its a dream. I have to have my revenge) Then comes back and puts his arms around me a takes out to the car so no one can ask questions. When were out there we've been talking for sometime, I think and then this person says he loves me and I realize I love him too. We kiss and I wake up. The most desturbing part of the dream is that its my best friends' little brother. He's two years younger then me, 13. I mean this kid is very nice, and matture for his age but its no reason for me to be dreaming about him in such ways. I keep telling myself I don't like him. That its not right to like him but for some reason I constantly think about him. I'm really disgusted with myself. I don't even care that he's my best friends' little brother so much as the age. I feel stupid.
I've told my friend about my dream and she sees no problem with it. I can't get her to understand that there is something wrong with me.
Now my real question is, How the hell do I get myself to quit dreaming about him? I try listening to music before I go to bed, and think about anything but him yet it still doesn't work.
Any suggestions would be great.
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There must be something you like about him or you wouldn't be dreaming about him like this. You probly like him maybe a little or something about him and just don't know it...plz rate me!!
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Okay well my dad bought me 6 tickets to the Houston Bowl like 3 weeks ago. I asked my best friend, Ryan to go with me the second I got the tickets and he said yes. They were great tickets in the nice, club area of Reliant and my dad got us a limo and everything.
The game was today and after the game we were supposed to go back to his house because he was throwing this big New Year's party.
He called me this morning an hour before we had to leave for the game and said he wasn't coming. I asked him why and he just said "no reason" and hung up. I called him back and asked him what his problem was and if he was mad at me. He told me that if I cared about him the least bit I would know what I did. I thought about it and could not come up with one thing that I did wrong.
At the game the rest of us were talking about it and I told them that if he was going to be like that then why would I go to his party. One of my friends that was there was going to a different party so I said that I would just go to that one since I knew people that were going there too.
Well someone from our Houston Bowl group had called Ryan during the game and told him that I was going to another party. He then called me and cussed me out and everything. I still had no idea why he was mad to begin with so I told him that unless he tells me why he's mad then he can't cuss at me and stuff. After that he just hung up.
What am I supposed to do here? Should I just ignore him until he decides to tell me what the matter is?
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Try getting out of him what you did because you can't do anything to help him if you don't know what you did in the first place..Hope I helped
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