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so ive been thinking... how do you know when ure friends are actually there i mean really there... I use to be hecka good friends with this girl well call her Mary well we were best friends then mary got mad and stopped talking to me for like 3 months i mean it was like forever. she got mad and just started ignoring me yea i know stupid(it was so stupid she doesnt even know why she was mad!) anyways now were friends again and were starting to be close again but i dunno if i still trust her... i mean it takes alot for someone to make me super sad and then want to be friends again. I was telling someone else about it and i told him that i went a long time not trusting her and he told me since they just meant that he thought she was super fake! he told me that hes the type of person that remembers stuff and wont forget if someone got mad at him and stopped talking but it keeps me thinking is she really there for me or is she just a bunch of lies that sits there acting like my friend. I mean u can only give someone so much in life. Anways i know you will probbaly not be able to help me. But i just want to know do you think she seems fake just by the way i described her. also she did the same thing to my friend before me she got mad at her and stopped talking to her then when she was mad at me she became friends with her again. I dunno its hard to explain.. ive just been thinking maybe i shouldn't put that much trust in her anymore and see what happens... i dont think i can trust her as much as i use to what do you think???? well sorry this is so long! i know its like an essay!
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well if you dont think shes really there for you, you should do something really stupid, and if she was a good a friend she would stick by you no matter what.. (it works ive done something stupid and i found out who my friends were)but yes she does sound fake from your description. so screw up and see if shes stll there and if you think shes not truly your friend. you should talk to the other people she hangs out with and see if she talks about you.. hope i helped...mandy
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it seemes like your friend just gets on the side thats winning if you know what i mean. like when people were mad at that other girl she was mad at her too but then when people were mad at you she was mad at you too. well i dont know if that was the situation but thats what it seems like to me. and about her being fake...im gonna have to say YES!! no TRUE friend is mad at someone and they don't even know why. you need to tell this girl this and hope that she straightens up. but it will probably be hard. she just doesn't sound like a very reliable friend. i had this one friend and i thought that she was like my best friend. i mean i trusted her with everything and then one day she told a secret i told her and i got so mad! i mean it was so embarassing and she swore to me that she wouldn't tell. but anyways i got mad and she was like well it was your fault and all this stuff and then seh turned the whole school agaisnt me! i mean it sucked and i just like lost my supposed to be "best friend" and it sucked but in the end after a long time we became friends again and she couldnt even remember what the fight was about...yea but things arent the same and i just dont trust her anymore and i just decided i didnt want to be her friend
well yea sorry it was really long but this is a topic im just all to familar with
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Well you can try to be friends with her..and it seems to me from what you have said that she is fake...bc she got mad at your friend and then she was friends with her then she got mad at you..so it seems she going on and off..srry if this is confusing..!
Hope this helps!<3
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