Hello there,
I'd like to thank whoever is gonna give me advice in advance.
Anyway, I've always had this problem:
I'm the president of the Student Council, and honestly I expected people, including my friends, to be happy for me.
However, two of my friends ( a boy and a girl), who are also on the Student council, started rumors about me being a show off and reminding the teachers about the homework, eventhough it's not true.
The boy's girlfriend is on the Student Council too, and I wanted to ask for her opinion about something. And as soon as I even opened my mouth, he cut me off! And stupid me didn't say anything! Not "Please man, I'm talking to her", nothing!
And on the same day, we had a "crazy dress up" competition and the Student Council members had to judge.
I was dressed as a gypsy, and was wearing a red shirt, red bandana, and red sandals. So from the beginning of the day, he keeps trying to provoke me: "Is it Valentine's day today or what?"
All I said was "What do you have against me?" and I walked away from him.
And in front of everyone, EVERYONE, he practically yells at me saying: "This crazy dress up must've been your idea!"
I just stared at him and walked away again.
And guess what? The crazy dress up day wasn't my idea! It was the other girl's idea and he would've known if he was even paying attention in the meetings! And guess what else? I didn't say that to him!
So my question is: How can I show this guy, whom I've known for almost 5 years, that he's being immature and is disrespecting me and hurting my feelings? :(
And how can I tell the other girl that I know what she's been saying about me?
I know how you feel. I've been through this too. Heres what you need to do aboutt he rumors. When someone comes up to you and asks "omg is it tru that ____blah__blah__blah" be like "who said that?" and then once they tell you be like "oh well i heard that(make up a rumor about whoever made the rumor up about you)" and then they'll go off telling everyone what you just told him. so now you turned the tables around and theres a rumor about her.And as for the guy-next time he says anything to you come up with a come back. Don't be scared to stand up for your self. If you never say anything then you won't change anything. So tell him something like "I feel sorry for you that you have to be so immature to get attention" or this is what i did to this one girl who made me really mad. get a dollar and bring it to school. When he comes up to and says something get out your dollar and be like "Heres a dollar go by a life" or just hit him. lol thats another option that usually works. most likely this guy is just jealous of you that is why he is making fun of you. so yea whatever you do i hope it turns out good.
good luck!
xoxoxo
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ok i have friends but we only hang out in school and most of the time its in class so we cant talk we never hangout like on the weekends so i am bored out of my mind on weekends i ask them if they want to come over on the weekend but they are busy doing other stuff i am like a year older than most of them so maybe there to young to hangout like there moms are over pretective i dont know but what should i do and like what stuff should i plan to go.
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when you ask them to do something and they say no ask them "then when do you think you can do something?" so then you can plan something ahead of time. and if you still don't have anything to do you could always do free dance nights. like every saturday night i go swingdancing. it might sound dumb but its fun.
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My friend Melissa is having a HUGE party at her house tonight..
but she didn't invite me.
We're friends..but not BEST friends..like on a scale of friendship..(10 as BFFs)..We're like a 5-6...you know?
Do you think I should ask her why she didn't invite me?
*One time, I confronted her about another party that she had..and she denied she ever had one.
I've never been over her house; vice versa..
Her parents like me though..I think..Why wouldn't she invite me? I thought we were friends :(...It's a HUGEEEE party..I'm sad.
maybe she is jealous of you are something and doesnt want u to be at her party for that
or
she just doenst really like you and she is just being fake and pretending
or
someone else that is coming to the party doesnt like you
or
she forgot?? but highly unlikely
yea so ask her why the hell she didnt invite you and if she comes up with some stupid excuse like
"i didnt even have one" then come up with a good come back and just stop being her friend
well yea there u go!
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so ive been thinking... how do you know when ure friends are actually there i mean really there... I use to be hecka good friends with this girl well call her Mary well we were best friends then mary got mad and stopped talking to me for like 3 months i mean it was like forever. she got mad and just started ignoring me yea i know stupid(it was so stupid she doesnt even know why she was mad!) anyways now were friends again and were starting to be close again but i dunno if i still trust her... i mean it takes alot for someone to make me super sad and then want to be friends again. I was telling someone else about it and i told him that i went a long time not trusting her and he told me since they just meant that he thought she was super fake! he told me that hes the type of person that remembers stuff and wont forget if someone got mad at him and stopped talking but it keeps me thinking is she really there for me or is she just a bunch of lies that sits there acting like my friend. I mean u can only give someone so much in life. Anways i know you will probbaly not be able to help me. But i just want to know do you think she seems fake just by the way i described her. also she did the same thing to my friend before me she got mad at her and stopped talking to her then when she was mad at me she became friends with her again. I dunno its hard to explain.. ive just been thinking maybe i shouldn't put that much trust in her anymore and see what happens... i dont think i can trust her as much as i use to what do you think???? well sorry this is so long! i know its like an essay!
it seemes like your friend just gets on the side thats winning if you know what i mean. like when people were mad at that other girl she was mad at her too but then when people were mad at you she was mad at you too. well i dont know if that was the situation but thats what it seems like to me. and about her being fake...im gonna have to say YES!! no TRUE friend is mad at someone and they don't even know why. you need to tell this girl this and hope that she straightens up. but it will probably be hard. she just doesn't sound like a very reliable friend. i had this one friend and i thought that she was like my best friend. i mean i trusted her with everything and then one day she told a secret i told her and i got so mad! i mean it was so embarassing and she swore to me that she wouldn't tell. but anyways i got mad and she was like well it was your fault and all this stuff and then seh turned the whole school agaisnt me! i mean it sucked and i just like lost my supposed to be "best friend" and it sucked but in the end after a long time we became friends again and she couldnt even remember what the fight was about...yea but things arent the same and i just dont trust her anymore and i just decided i didnt want to be her friend
well yea sorry it was really long but this is a topic im just all to familar with
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