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Retarded friend
Okay well my dad bought me 6 tickets to the Houston Bowl like 3 weeks ago. I asked my best friend, Ryan to go with me the second I got the tickets and he said yes. They were great tickets in the nice, club area of Reliant and my dad got us a limo and everything.
The game was today and after the game we were supposed to go back to his house because he was throwing this big New Year's party.
He called me this morning an hour before we had to leave for the game and said he wasn't coming. I asked him why and he just said "no reason" and hung up. I called him back and asked him what his problem was and if he was mad at me. He told me that if I cared about him the least bit I would know what I did. I thought about it and could not come up with one thing that I did wrong.
At the game the rest of us were talking about it and I told them that if he was going to be like that then why would I go to his party. One of my friends that was there was going to a different party so I said that I would just go to that one since I knew people that were going there too.
Well someone from our Houston Bowl group had called Ryan during the game and told him that I was going to another party. He then called me and cussed me out and everything. I still had no idea why he was mad to begin with so I told him that unless he tells me why he's mad then he can't cuss at me and stuff. After that he just hung up.
What am I supposed to do here? Should I just ignore him until he decides to tell me what the matter is?
17/f
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um, maybe he wants you to be more than a friend or something, and he heard about you doing this or that with another guy? I don't think he'll tell you what's wrong just because you ignore him.
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I think he's being a little immature about this myself.
If you did something wrong then why didn't he say something at the time? Why wait until an hour before the game? That ticket was probably worth a lot of money for someone to do a last minute ditch on.
And, if hes so mad why get pissy because you aren't going to HIS party? He didn't have a problem bailing out of going to the game with you!
So yes, at the very least ignore him until he does some pretty good apologizing. :)
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Try getting out of him what you did because you can't do anything to help him if you don't know what you did in the first place..Hope I helped <3
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It sounds like you really care about him. If you didnt you wouldnt be so worried about it. I think the first thing you should do is apoligize for blowing off his party. I know he hurt you but I'm sure doing that hurt him a lot too & he'd feel better if he knew you cared. I know it hurts that he didnt even give you an exuse but lets face it, he`s a guy, & like most guys, he wont be the one to apoligize first. Talk to him face-t-face & calmly. Try not to sound overly-mad but let him know he hurt you. Hope you can work things out!
Sincerely,
Stephanie ♥
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what a loser haha =) no offense. that's soo jerkish because you made the plans & then he juss backs out & cusses you out on top of it. juss let him cool off. after a bit, then ask him what was going on & how you really didn't appreciate him doing that & you had ever right not to go to his party since he didn't go with you to the game & everything.
-hope that helped!♥
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