The whole reason i made this column is for practice. I want to be a child psychologist. What better practice than this?!? I believe everyone deserves a fair, helpful, honest answer. I dont think someone should feel ashamed or less of a person for asking a question.Im pretty open minded. Whatever it is you ask me I will try to help the best i can. AND I CAN PROMISE IF YOU ASK ME A QUESTION... A REAL ONE... ILL ANSWER IT. (MORE THAN LIKELY WITHIN A DAY)
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I heard a song with the title being close to something about "The day the world died" or "The day the world ended" or something along those lines. And the band that sang it had the word about rockets or rocketships or spaceships. The song is electronica. Yeah, I was just wondering if anyone knew who the band was. Sorry for being so vague. (link)
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There is a song by Ray Luv called The day the world ended. Is that it? The lyrics are...
Where was you at the day the world ended, was you free?
Out feelin good and livin splendid, or on your knees?
Or was you with the realest of your homies, just smokin weed
Or in a gutter drunk, cold and hungry, a broken dream?
I knew a preacher and a school teacher, they both was fiends
All that glisten ain't really gold, although it seems
At times I know fo' sho' that I ought, just for the dream
If I fail to succeed, then it's all up to me
So let us ball like the 1st and 15th
Call shots out of drop tops, chasin the cream
Not for the greed, just to fulfill the prophecy for the seed
And know that we ain't stoppin till we stronger with g's, no longer in need
Come on
[ CHORUS ]
Where will I be when the Lord callin for me
When the game come callin for me
Where do we go when this whole world's over, over
What will I see when we finally meet our destiny
When the game comes callin for me
Where do we go when this whole world is over, over
[ VERSE 1: Ray Luv ]
Who did you love the day the world ended, family and friends?
With your final days, how did you spend em, jealous of men
So many people disillusioned in this world that we in
No solutions, just mass confusion, the line is thin
Between eternal salvation and sin, when I die
Do dreams and deeds die with men? I can't lie
At times I wanna cry and repent for my soul
When I'm alone and all the money is spent, what do I do?
When the missiles 'bout to blow up the Earth
And all I know is how to smoke big and throw up the turf
With your time left you better give the world what you're worth
And spend every new day, brother, like it was your first
It was your first
[ CHORUS ]
[ VERSE 1: Ray Luv ]
What's my destiny, fuck it, let me chase it and face it
And even if I don't make it, I'd rather fall off than fake it
Nothin can hold us back, when will we take it
Even though I know the slippery surface out there layin and waitin
And player-hatin, I know it must be frustratin just tryin to live
Raisin four and five kids with no time to give
Fuck the world, for me life just ain't a joy to live
It's like a rollercoaster ride with two busted ribs
That's probably why we all lust for chips, rush for shit
Get it quick, before the world and the millenium flip
May these words that I wrote give a young brother hope
Lord knows it's hard to cope through the hate and the dope
[ CHORUS ]
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ahh i seriously have like 10 or more mosquito bites and they are driving me crazyy!!!!! is there any way to make them go away quicker? i have this lotion stuff but it doesn't help that much and only lasts for a little period of time. please help they itch so bad!! =[ thank youuu. (link)
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Dear itchy,
Put clear threw nail polish on it. Noone would no its there, and it will make it stop itching.
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i got lice from a friend (who didnt tell mee) we used this stuff called rid- it worked but i had so much that i thik its still kinda there...any home remedies? should i use rid again? please help! anything will do :'( (link)
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OIL..like olive oil....or vegtable. TRUST ME IT WORKS. I caught lice from one of my friends like in 4th grade. I had hair down to my but, and i got rid of by doing this. Pour oil all over your head right before you go to sleep. then rap it in cer-an-rap (That clear stuff) when you wake up the next morning wash your hair. Basicaley what it does is smothers the lice. Make sure when you go to bed you use an old pillow case so that your good ones wont get ruiened.
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Okay I need to get a cell phone plan. I need something really cheap because it's kind of hard on my mom right now financially. So I heard that with Cricket, you can get unlimited minutes & unlimited text for only 35 dollars, BUT the downside is that it has bad service...and I want a company that I might be able to get a free phone with...preferably a razr...so any advice on this would be good....
Other cheap companies.
Free phone companies.
Free texting with limited minutes.
I really just want free texting &&& night and weekend minutes.
Anything but T=mobile.
any advice would be GREAT. (link)
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Hey iv been doing the same thing, looking for a phone plan, and believe or not i work for a cell phone companery :D. I would advice going to www.metropcs.com I dont work for them but there plans are cheap, but there phones are expensive, however in the long run you save. They have unlimited locale calling for 30$. No contract, no activation fee, unlimited texting for 3$. (by the way caller id and voicemail are not included )this is another 3 or 4$ but thats only a dollar off from 35 you wanted to pay if you get all that.
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okay so i want to become a member of beinggirl.com but in order to sign up i have to tell them my mailing address, and i live with my dad. so i dont know what their gonna send me, i mean i dont want them to send me something and my dad get the mail and come up to me and be like "what are you doing getting these" or something like that. i havn't my period yet either.
so what do i do, i really wanna become a member, but i dont know what will come in the mail.
what should i do, thx a lot!!! (link)
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I have joined that, and yes they do send you stuff in the mail . Its in a cute little box that says Beinggirl.com on the front.. inside is tampons..pads..and liners. There free, but if your not wanting your dad to know this then mabey you shouldnt sighn up. Also just to let you know, if your dad doesnt open the box, then he will never know whats in it. It says nothing about pads, or tampons on the front :D.
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Hey..
I hav been going out for this guy let's call him Josh for almost 10 months. We hav an amazing relationship and he really is my best friend. We have one problem his ex girlfriend is insane. She is obssesed with him and there is a long story behind that but just to make it short she is jealous and she wants him and her and I got into a big thing. I don't liek to start things and i do stand up for myself but i don't liek having enemies. About 2 weeks ago. My boyfriend started treating me like crap. This is 2 weeks ago: Saturday night we got into a fight because his ex's friends were starting stuff with my friends. I told him that i didn't know if i cood take i anymore. We weren't on the best page. Since it is summer we don't see eachother that much he went to camp before these 2 weeks and now he's on vacation. SO back to Saturday so that happened then on Sunday we talked and he was mad and upset. On monday we were planning to see eachother on tuesday but my friends messed it up. Also on monday we had a long talk about his ex and hwo i feel like he doesn't stand up for me like he should. When our plans got ruined for tuesday i was upset but it seemed like he didn't even care. On tuesday he called me at night and we didn't talk much but i asked him what he did today and he said nothing and that he's been thinkin about alot. I got a little worried. Well anyways Wedneday came n i went to my friends house with him and all my friends.I decided to just forget about everything because he was leaving that friday and i thought it would be the last time i would see him so i wanted it to be good. It somehow came up and he wanted to talk and said that i don't feel like he is really intersting and all that and he simply told me that he was just thinking that the relationship is getting too serious as in commitment wise. I understood because we are still young but how could he tell me he loves me if he doesn't wanna be with me. Well anyways on thursday i found out that on wednesday night he slept at his friends house and he did a camera thing with one ofmy friends theyw ere all joking but he told her to pull her shirt down more so her boobs would show. It's so hard to even write this because he's so not like this. On thursday night i found out earlier that day his ex adn her friends came over to swim with his friends. Just to amek it short on friday i saw him for 2 minutes and i was planning on talking to him about it but he could opnlys tay for like 5 minutes. He was being an ass and he just left and said i love you bye. He's on vacation right now and i don't know what to do when he comes back. Thanx for reading this .What should i do? I'm 13 almost 14 and a girl.lol
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UGHH DUMP HIM! im pretty sure i have never told anyone that...BUT GOOD LORD hes treating you like crap. AND then the whole x-thing...he obviousley he still has feelings for her. Hes more than likely keeping her as a side thing, and when yall break up, he will be back with her in a matter of weeks. It will probaley hurt, but take a deep breath, tell yourself your better than what hes treating you, and movvvvee on.
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i am the school dork
i am SERIOUS
i am a loner
i need friends..OBVIOUSLY
well see on my messenger i have 2 friends my sister and me (i have two e-mails)
people call me dork and loser because i love to look at stars and pretend to talk to the martians that live there
its true! i've seen them with my super deluxe telescope from my true love, my mother, on my birthday :)
i had a party but unfortunately only my family came i invited all my classmates. lets put it this way i live in beverly hills (my dad is a top attorney, my mom is a CEO) so everyone at my school is all uppity up and shows off about their being rich and all. i'm just glad that i have a home and all but i am 13 and 1/2 i want a boyfriend! i want friends not friends that would just use me! please give me tips! let me give you an idea of how i look:
glasses (these cool d&g aviators) on sale
school uniform (private school)
the straightest stiff hair anyone here has ever seen.
school is coming!
I NEED YOUR HELP!
signed,
desperately desperate (link)
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Do you wear makeup? It makes a difference. So, if you don't already thanks about getting at least so eye liner and lip gloss. (NOT COLORED LIP GLOSS)As far as friends go, joining clubs and organizations always helps, and also looks great when you apply for college. Also if you have a religion preference try going to a church. Typically they all have teen youth groups, and are really accepting. As for the boyfriend situation my best advice is don't rush it. When a guy is interested, you will usually notice. Sometimes you don't, but if he likes you a lot then he will eventually make it known. If you just go out with a guy so that you can have a boyfriend then that's pretty much just practicing for a divorce b/cuz chances are it wont last.
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Are there any sites that let you make a site for free? Other the freewebs and freewebspace...I want one that is like Furry-Paws.com without having to pay for a server. Thanks. (link)
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Dear Web-sta,
I have use www.bravehost.net in the past and to me it was the best site ever. Yes, there is 2 different plans on it. One you haft to pay, the other one you dont.(i think the main difference between the two is that the one you pay for has no advertisement) So, as long as you click the free one, you should be fine. It has a journale, pic page, personale chatroom, guestbook, and offcourse pages you can add to your site. Thats not all eather. I would be here days if i told you all the exstras you could add to that site. Feel free to ask me more about the bravehost because it can get confusing once you make one.
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there is this amazing band that comes from a couple cities away from my hometown.
I am in love with their music and I really want to help them get more shows and get big
they deserve it.
I was just wondering what things I need to do and who do i need to talk to to help them rise and stuf?
if you want to know the music I'm trying to advertise;;
www.myspace.com/burningaliveIA
www.purevolume.com/burningaliveIA (link)
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Dear Group-E,
-Clothing always works. How many time do you walk down the halls of your school and read a shirt or two ...or more.
-Put up sighns in your room. Im sure you have friends come over. So if they do, they will see your wall sighns and ask, "Whos that band?" and you can tell them all about it.
-Also if its not already in your profile...Put it there.
-Any away messages you put up.
-The simplest things work
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There's these two guys I like. I have dated both of them before, and one knows what he's doing in a relationship, and one doesn't. They are two totally different people with two totally different personalities, and I honestly just don't know what I want. They both asked me back out tonight, and I just don't know what to do. I don't want to leave them both hanging for my answer, but I don't know who I want to choose! Help! (link)
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Dear Dilema,
I think you should tell them both that your not sure. Tell them you will give them an answer when you think your sure about it. Then see who sticks around. If one of them all of a sudden stops talking to you then mabey he was just rushing back into a relationship with you, and therefor i think you should go with the other one. If both of them stop talking to you...then mabey neather of them was the right choice to pick. So, wait it out for the next guy. Good luck in your relationship situation, and hope i helped.
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ok all of my friends are having sex (and there all around 15 and 16, and i am 15.) And I don't feel like people our age are ready to have sex yet...but all of my friends are telling me how much fun it is, and they kept telling me how i need to lose it. I kept telling them that i'm not ready, but they keep pressuring me to have it. How can I get it throgh there head that i'm not ready and I don't want to lose it untill i'm ready? (link)
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Dear virgin,
Tell them that u respect that they have lost it. However dont give into there pressure. Sex will be a beautiful thing if its with that perfect person. If they insist that much on you loosing your virginity then mabey you should find some better friends.
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i am and gay and i want to tell my parents but if i do i am affraid they will dishone me and never speak to me again, but i don't want to hide it any longer. What do i do? (link)
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Dear scared,
First of all i doubt you should tell your dad first. He will probaley take it the hardest. Fathers are just like that. Try telling your mom when your dad isnt around. OR if your really scared of both, When you go to school (Assuming that your in school) then leave a note for them to read. When you get home they should have already read the letter, and might be calmer because they have had time to blow off steam by then. Try leaving the note next to a remote that way there bound to find it.
Theres is really no easy way of telling them your gay, just go for it!
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ok so im 17 and male ive been in many relationships but have always been the one dumped and i love them and take them on dates and buy them things and other girls say that im "the perfect bf" but my relationships are always short and i get dumped what do i do? (link)
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Dear relationship seaker,
Money cant by love. IT maby able to buy happyness but not love. I havent been your girlfriend so i cant put myself in there shoes as to why they dumped you. But try asking yourself these questions.
1. Are you staying stuck up there but? Girls enjoy the attention they get from there boyfriend, but they like space too. They don't want a lost puppy following them around. So why would they want a guy too? Space makes the heart grow fonder in most cases.
2.Do you keep them laughing, but not to the point of annoyance? Girls love when guys make them laugh. Its kinda a way of flirting, but it always wins us over. However dont try to hard to make her laugh because that can get annoying. By this i mean dont tell jokes. Thats old school.If you do, dont say 1000 at a time.
3.Do you think your the perfect boyfriend. It does take confidence. Its like a competition. If you go out there thinking your going to do good, then chances are you will. Keep your confidence up.
4. Do you tell the girl i love you after only a day or two. We dont want to here it unless you mean it. And you cant possibley be in love with everygirl. Say it at the most unexpecting time. It makes us get butterflys.
I'm not sure if iv helped or not. SO feel free to ask again. Just typ at the bottom of it Relationship seaker. That way ill know its you again. And good luck at trying to figure out girls, and relationships. Were like one of the mysteries of the universe
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(PROS WITH AOL.)
my mom and dad don't want me or my sister on myspace, and i've been sneaking on at my friends houses. aren't they're any sites that like...don't track it in your history? AND, i have parental blocks on my computer, and i wanted to know how to get around it...i also have AOL GUARDIAN on my account, so my mom knows what i'm doing all the time. if i use a different browswer, will it still record it?
anything would help... thanks. x333 (link)
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Dear sneaky
I know this isn't the answer that your looking for, but no. I had aol parental controls on mine. I had a myspace at one point but i also got busted, and grounded in the end. Not worth it. Just make your own web page. I made one using www.bravehost.net You can have your own chat room/ journal/ guestbook/ picture gallery.
Sorry if that wasnt the answer you were looking for :(
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Okay soo I'm a 15 year old female. I've been going out with my boyfriend for just over a month now. I love spending time with him! but i see him more as a friend than anything else. When we kiss there just arent any sparks. I'm afraid of hurting him, but i think if i stay with him ill just hurt him more later on... any ideas? (link)
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Dear Friendly,
Its better to break up with him now, then to lead him on believeing that you like him. If there is no spark, then there will probaley never be one. But remember the longer your together the harder the breakup will be on him. If hes a descent guy he should understand, and be happy that your not leading him on to believe that you like him.
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Well since it's summer I want to get tan, but the only roblem is I'm not going to the beach once the whoel time! I need to find a quick and fast way to get a dark tan as soon as possible. I don't think I'm going to go to a tanning salon because I can't afford the membership. I had bad past experiences with fake tanners (spray ons and lotions). I live in Pennsylvania too, so it's hard for me to get a good tan by laying outside in the sun. Are there any tanning oils out there that really work, or even fake tanners that last for a long time and turn you a bronze color, not orange or brown! Thanks for the Advice! (link)
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Dear Tanner,
There are lotions i have seen down the lotion isles that are actually body lotion that darkens your skin as you use it daily. I think theres one by the brand Jergins( not sure how you spell it)
The best self tanner according to magazines and other women is St. Tropez Self Tanning Creme
However, you might want to reconsider tanning in the yard. The reason i say this is because at one point i was probaley the whitest person. I wanted the summer tan like everyone. So i got babyoil and right now im the darkest iv been. I have a naturale tan look and each time i lay out im getting darker. You haft to lay out about 20 minutes on each side(at least). Besides when you tan in a taning bed, its not going to prevent a sunburn because its a different kind of U-V rays
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ok.
so it feels like my vagina is being presured. i dont really no how to explain it. it feels like i have to pee a lot. but i dont think its a UTI. any one know what it is or how to get rid of it?! (link)
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Dear Infection,
Im not a doctor or anything but try this.
-NO cokes
-Lots of water
-Cranberry juice (It helps with your bladder)
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so me and my friend were remembering the 90's and we wanted to know some 90's pop bands haha i know its a dumb question but were curious lol.
thanks (link)
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Dear 90's,
I went to yaho0 music and they have a catagorey that you can liesten to called "1990's pop" You might want to try it. Anywaise...here were some of the songs they played.
Artist--------Song
1. Goo Goo Dolls --- Iris
2. Ace of Base --- The Sighn
3. Alanis Morissette --- You learn
4. En Vogue --- Dont let go
5. Jennifer Paige --- Crush
6. Boys II Men --- On Bended knee
7. Spice Girls --- Wannabe
8. Smash Mouth --- All star
9. Oasis --- Wonderwall
10. Jewel --- You Were Ment For Me
11. Blink 182 --- Whats My Age Again
12. TLC --- Waterfalls
13. Will Smith --- Gitten' Jiggy Wit It
14. Color Me Badd --- I Wanna Sex You Up
15. Matchbox twenty --- Real World
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Lemon Juice on hair and then going into the sun! What happens? (link)
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Dear Lemon,
Yes, lemon juice main lighten the hair but it also may damage it in the process. Try going to the store. There is a product down the hair care isle called Sun In hair lightener spray. Its pretty much the same effect as lemon juice but its actually made for hair. It conditions in the process. I think its about 3$.
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ok well this is kinda a strange question about niqabs. well if you wear niqab, what are some guidelines to follow? like should you wear only plain colors, should you wear gloves/socks, and can you wear long skirts with long-loose shirts? thank you for your help:) (link)
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Dear researcher,
Try this site. http://www.alhannah.com/niqab.html It has the stuff they where on it. As for the guidelines, try google searching it. Simpley typ in Niqab Guidelines. Hope i helped :D
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