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Hey..
I hav been going out for this guy let's call him Josh for almost 10 months. We hav an amazing relationship and he really is my best friend. We have one problem his ex girlfriend is insane. She is obssesed with him and there is a long story behind that but just to make it short she is jealous and she wants him and her and I got into a big thing. I don't liek to start things and i do stand up for myself but i don't liek having enemies. About 2 weeks ago. My boyfriend started treating me like crap. This is 2 weeks ago: Saturday night we got into a fight because his ex's friends were starting stuff with my friends. I told him that i didn't know if i cood take i anymore. We weren't on the best page. Since it is summer we don't see eachother that much he went to camp before these 2 weeks and now he's on vacation. SO back to Saturday so that happened then on Sunday we talked and he was mad and upset. On monday we were planning to see eachother on tuesday but my friends messed it up. Also on monday we had a long talk about his ex and hwo i feel like he doesn't stand up for me like he should. When our plans got ruined for tuesday i was upset but it seemed like he didn't even care. On tuesday he called me at night and we didn't talk much but i asked him what he did today and he said nothing and that he's been thinkin about alot. I got a little worried. Well anyways Wedneday came n i went to my friends house with him and all my friends.I decided to just forget about everything because he was leaving that friday and i thought it would be the last time i would see him so i wanted it to be good. It somehow came up and he wanted to talk and said that i don't feel like he is really intersting and all that and he simply told me that he was just thinking that the relationship is getting too serious as in commitment wise. I understood because we are still young but how could he tell me he loves me if he doesn't wanna be with me. Well anyways on thursday i found out that on wednesday night he slept at his friends house and he did a camera thing with one ofmy friends theyw ere all joking but he told her to pull her shirt down more so her boobs would show. It's so hard to even write this because he's so not like this. On thursday night i found out earlier that day his ex adn her friends came over to swim with his friends. Just to amek it short on friday i saw him for 2 minutes and i was planning on talking to him about it but he could opnlys tay for like 5 minutes. He was being an ass and he just left and said i love you bye. He's on vacation right now and i don't know what to do when he comes back. Thanx for reading this .What should i do? I'm 13 almost 14 and a girl.lol
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UGHH DUMP HIM! im pretty sure i have never told anyone that...BUT GOOD LORD hes treating you like crap. AND then the whole x-thing...he obviousley he still has feelings for her. Hes more than likely keeping her as a side thing, and when yall break up, he will be back with her in a matter of weeks. It will probaley hurt, but take a deep breath, tell yourself your better than what hes treating you, and movvvvee on.
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wow that was long lol but im sorry to say this because i can tell you really like him but, i really dont think he wants to go out with you anymore because guys are frigggin retards and they like to be manwhores but seriously think you should dump him or take a break from him because he is not showing any love for you or anything but yeaah i hope i helped
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i feel sorry for you, this is obvisly very hard. i know you may not like this answer but i think you should dump him. to me it seems like he still has feelings for his ex and although you love him i don't think he's very good for you. what i would do is let the relanshship simmer for a while and if he gets back eith his ex then it's better to know it now then when your closier to him. i hope everything go's well for you
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