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can i learn to trust people
im 14m and i dont think i'll ever be albe to trust people. you see i've had crushes on girls and i think they like me because they flirt with me but when i ask them out they get all horrified and humiliate me
when ever my friends say a girl likes me and i ask her out the same thing always happens
and somtimes people just lie to me because they think that it's funny or somthing
one time i found a love note from one of my female friends but when i asked her out she didn't know what i was talking about and are friendship was totally over
and onetime this totally hot girl asked my out but i didn't trust her so it didn't work out
somtimes i dont know what to do because i wanna ask a girl out but i wont wanna take the chance of getting embarrised or hurt. and some times i just don't trust them because it's usually a joke.
will i ever learn to trust girls and could someone mabeye give me some advice or help so i can learn to trust people more.
sorry it was so long
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considering i`m a girl, maybe i could help. us girls can be rude. but usually when we like a guy, but turn them down, it`s because we`re too nervous to even think about going out with the guy. and the love-note joke; that gets pretty old. girls, yes, we`re confusing, but trusting us. . . you just have to really know the person before you make a comitment.
<3 you sound pretty sweet. ;)
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I know your frightened that your history is going to repeat itself if this has happened so many times, but you can't let the past get in your way. It's actually quite simple, if you like a girl, ask her out. If she says no its not the end of the world, just shrug it off and move onto someone else. As for your friends, if they are that mean to repeatedly do that to you, it doesnt seem like they are very good friends at all. They dont deserve your trust, so just dont trust them! Go with your instinct. You might want to find some new friends, one that will treat you better.
Hope I helped,
Jacki
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It's reasonable of why you feel that way but trust is not something that you get of course it must be earned.It's so mean when people decide to play with people's feelings they wouldn't want to be the ones to get hurt.The next time someone leaves a note ask the person who you think wrote it if they did so it won't happen again,tell your friends to stop lying to you about girls stating they want to go out, and real friends wouldn't do something like that.Yes,you will be able to trust again right now you're in pain but there will be a person who wins your trust,not hurt you, will really like you enough to want to go out with you,and don't think negative because then you always will.
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Thats pretty rough.
anyway, I"ve seen this before, and its down right wrong. If you have any clue whos pulling these pranks on you, i'd sugguest having a serious talk. anyhow, you're fairly young, and i'm pretty positive you'll get over it. you should just wait a while before asking anybody out, i believe high school relationships are pretty much useless, and they hardly EVER last,I mean, come on. what are high school relationships about? making out between classes and possibly walking her home. it wont last. so i wouldnt really bother. but seriously, if a girl really likes you, she'll actually show intrest in you. theres a diffrence between liking you, like, seeing you in the hall and thinking you're cute. and liking you like, you've known her for a while, and she likes your personality, and thinks you're sweet. but, if a girl is talking to you, and tells you she thinks you're sweet, dont jump in and ask her out, get to know here for a while, see if you like her back and see if she shows intrest in still liking you. i know it's stupid, but its true, 99% of effective relationships, the couple were friends first. you have to make sure you fully trust this one girl, and you've known her, so you know you like her back, before asking her out. If you just walk up to any girl that you friend sugguested, thats kind've desprite.
anyway, I wish you the best of luck, and I hope i helped!
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