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i need help!!!
i am the school dork
i am SERIOUS
i am a loner
i need friends..OBVIOUSLY
well see on my messenger i have 2 friends my sister and me (i have two e-mails)
people call me dork and loser because i love to look at stars and pretend to talk to the martians that live there
its true! i've seen them with my super deluxe telescope from my true love, my mother, on my birthday :)
i had a party but unfortunately only my family came i invited all my classmates. lets put it this way i live in beverly hills (my dad is a top attorney, my mom is a CEO) so everyone at my school is all uppity up and shows off about their being rich and all. i'm just glad that i have a home and all but i am 13 and 1/2 i want a boyfriend! i want friends not friends that would just use me! please give me tips! let me give you an idea of how i look:
glasses (these cool d&g aviators) on sale
school uniform (private school)
the straightest stiff hair anyone here has ever seen.
school is coming!
I NEED YOUR HELP!
signed,
desperately desperate
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Do you wear makeup? It makes a difference. So, if you don't already thanks about getting at least so eye liner and lip gloss. (NOT COLORED LIP GLOSS)As far as friends go, joining clubs and organizations always helps, and also looks great when you apply for college. Also if you have a religion preference try going to a church. Typically they all have teen youth groups, and are really accepting. As for the boyfriend situation my best advice is don't rush it. When a guy is interested, you will usually notice. Sometimes you don't, but if he likes you a lot then he will eventually make it known. If you just go out with a guy so that you can have a boyfriend then that's pretty much just practicing for a divorce b/cuz chances are it wont last.
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First off, don't put yourself down, saying that your the school dork. Have some confidence in yourself. Point out all the good things about you.
What you need to do, is go & find some people, that you think look nice. Go up & talk to them & just say.."Can I hang out with you?" When, I was in like 2nd grade, & I only had 2 friends & I wasn't popular at all, I just made friends with these girls, that like took dance at the same place I did & stuff. & now there all my best friends!
Now.. about the whole, talking to 'martians' or whatever, & everything.. maybe.. don't tell people that. Just keep that to yourself. Everyone has something weird about them. Like me, I still like to play with my dolls. I don't tell people that, because they'll think I'm gay. But, my best friend, likes to too. But, we don't go around telling people. So.. just don't tell anyone that you do that.
Now, about you wanting a boyfriend... well don't rush that. First, make some good friends. Atleast 2 or 3. Once you got that.. then start going for the boys.
Also, going to a private school, yeah so do I .. so the label you get from when you were like in 4th grade, its pretty hard to break that. I'm in the 7th grade [ going into 8th ] & just last year.. I made sure I was nice to everyone. Because everyone thought of me, as the rich snobb whos mean. Which is most deff. not try. Because they were sterityping me, of what my friends are like. Which some of them are really nice ! So yeah, it may be hard.. to make people believe that your not just some loser. But, if you change your appearance & stuff. It may make some people accept you.
Now, about the way you look.. your 13, so I believe you can get contacts then right? GET THEM! Start wearing a little bit of make up. [To make your eyes look bigger & stuff] If you don't usually wear makeup, & you've never worn mascarra, get the clear stuff first, intill you get good. Thats what I used when I was learning how =) Your hair, yeah.. go to a salon. Get a very in hair style. & style your hair. In our private school, on the first day of school.. we can dress down. If you can, wear something from Abercrombie & fitch or the abercrombie kids. [Abercrombie kids is cheaper] Or you could wear something from hollister. But i like A&F a ton better. So yeah. & if you can't dress down the first day.. just whenever like your school has like a field trip or something or a dance, wear abercrombie. You may impress some people..
I really hope that helped. =) kbye
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Desperate-
okay. i`m not going to beat around the bush . . .there is NO way you`ll get any friends if you "talk to martians!". harsh? yeah, maybe, but if someone at my school was like that . . . they`d be in the same situation as you. hmmm . but i guess i can TRY to help. Unfortunately the world is too Clique-ish. you have the money, so buy THE brand names. buy some nice hair treatment products. and a straightener. even though your hair is straight, it`ll look neater. If after school, this advice still doesn`t help, try e-mailing or IMing me. then i`ll help you again.
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Now, I'm not saying you should change or anything but maybe you should tone down your personality a little, you can't come off too strong at first because that is something people don't like. Just be sweet and approach one of your classmates and talk to them about what they did over the summer or just any little thing. If you don't want them to use you, first don't discuss what your home life is like and second...don't let them. If they are only your friends for that reason...move on..you'll find others that like your personality.
And hey, you sound like you are an individual and that you stand out in a sea of private school girl uniforms...something a lot of people want and can never achieve. So kudos on that!
Embrace what you look like, I use to hate the fact that I wore glasses, so I was dying to get contacts, but now I don't mind wearing them...I think they make me look smart =].
Good Luck...if you have need any more help, just message me.
-Teacup
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