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there is this guy in 9th grade that i think is really hott..and im only in the 7th. and we kno each other..and talk and stuff..but just not that well, and he knos i think he is hott..but, he said wen im in 9th grade he'll think about goin out wit me. which is okay..that doesnt bother me..but im really starting to like him and i have a b/f..and my b/f always asks me if i like anyone else, and we are truthful to each other so i tell him i like the 9th grader..and hes like wat? hes barley in high school..so he acts weird about it or w/e wen i tell him..and i fell like i can only tell the 9th grader stuff..and not any of my friends..because they might take it weird..so..idk..im just confused..is this normal or w/e??- -sry it sounds so retarted..i rate..please help!
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Well, it sounds to me that you're doing what a lot of girls do. He seems like Mr. Perfect, and your boyfriend seems like, he's just, there. Dont break up with your boyfriend, really, cause you'll lose someone that is really awesome to you. He obiviously cares about you, while the guy in 9th grade is leading you on a little bit. Dont get a broken heart because of the 9th grader. Of course, you can still talk to him, and be friends with him. Just go a step at time, sweet heart! Tell your boyfriend how you feel, just tell him that you're having these odd feelings, probably having to do with your womanhood and he should understand. Just keep it cool with this 9th grader. Hope everything works out!!
~Jill~
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hi...well hes probably to old for you because when ur in 9th grade he will be in 11th...so it probably wont work out..and he sees you as a friend probly because your so young..but maybe you could spend more time with your bf to get your mind off the 9th grader since your starting to really like him...
Hope this helps!<3
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Well, there's a very simple explanation for this. The 9th grader is a little too old for you at this point, that wouldn't turn out well. And it's painfully obvious to me, and I would think it would be to anybody, why your boyfriend is offended when his girlfriend tells him that she likes some other guy. You really just shouldn't tell your boyfriend that, and if it's true, then break up with him, that's just messed up. It would also make sense for your friends to take it weird, because it is. So, in answer, no this isn't normal. This is very abnormal. It's pretty twisted to do what you're doing.
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wellll the reason you probably feel you cant talk to anyone else but the freshman is because no one in your grade SERIOUSLY likes anyone out of there school. they may think that high schoolers are hott. but they never start to like them. i dont think anything will happen between yall until you reach highschool. because no highschooler goes out with middle schoolers... for now just be his freind. talk to him about things that you cant talk to your freinds about. i wouldnt talk to your boy friend about it b/c he is just going to get jealous. but then again, dont hide things from you bf. if he asks something about this 9th grader answer him.
hope i helped
-emily
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