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Boy I can't walk away from
Ok, so I've known this guy about 4-5 years; we met through a friend. We've always had a flirtaious kind of relationship, but never really anything more until recently when I've approached the idea. We both went to different schools and hes 2 1/2 years older soo group of friends were different. He always seemed to have a girlfriend back in the day or I always seemed to be friends with the girl he wanted. Until recently he had this evil bitch girlfriend who cheated on him and abused him emotionally, but because he was so in love he couldnt see it. He eventually woke up and realized what he was doing to himself and got out of it, promising me and himself not to go back to her. We started getting closer, but then hes been getting shady lately. Picking fights, getting extremely moody over little things I say, just isnt acting himself. Ive asked him plenty of times if he wants more than friends or just benefits, he says more but wont go farther than that. He tells me he loves me and says he thinks about me and cares for me, but he wont take the next step. I don't think I should have to, because I've layed myself out several times telling him how I feel yet he tells ppl I'm the one who is confused... What should I do?? Is he getting moody maybe b/c of the ex is back in the view?? I'm not a guy, I can't read their signals so help me please!!!!
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ok i got you feed back and thanks but i dont see why hes not going for you and not everything your doing is wroung stil punch the old bitch but if he likes you he most kno about your feelings about him and wait for him to make the first move if it doesnt come right away have pations but if like a month goes by go over there and be like "i like you ok there why are you scared ive tryed to show you easyily but no your ignoring me hello what do i ahve to do to show i like you im not your x girlfriend im not ganna do taht to you and i thought that you would know that"very nicly not like screaming at him nice and frown when your done saying it that will show him hopefully this helps and if it doesnt im very sorry <3333.::katie::.
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I think he likes you and he really want to be with you, and he's not perpously hurting. It's just him. I think that he doesnt want to hurt you, also maybe because since he just got out of a really strong relationship, and his mind is telling him that everyone is like that. Just back off liking him soo much for a little bit. Try to help him get over this stage, he'll get over it sooner or later. Just try to put up with him, and then when you think that he is back to normal, start acting like you like him a whole bunch again, start giving him singals again. and if he goes back to this stage...maybe it means that he just doenst want to get farther...
good luck!
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guys can be weird sometimes. you're right though. he's probably acting that way because of his ex. i think what you should do is be straight forward with him. ask him if he wants to be with you er not. yes er no question & that you're tired of waiting around. explain to him that you aren't confused & if he wants to be with you then you guys should be together. he is definately the one that's confused. think about what you're gonna say & go for it. make it easier for him. yes er no question & that's it. if he says yes then you guys will have a relationship, but if he says no then you guys will juss be friends & then you can do w/e you want.
-hope that helped!♥
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i think that he's the confused one .. maybe he's not sure what he's feeling at the moment and just wants to chill .. give him a little bit of time .. and if he doesnt realize anything within a little while just move on .. but that might make him jealous .. good luck
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